I like being on top and my boyfriend likes it that way too, but sex usually happens pretty late at night for us (sometimes its a wake up in the middle of the night) and i am kinda tired and being on top is alot more work for me, i get tired before either of us cum. then we have to switch position or stop. Any ideas? i have actually thought of taking one of those new energy shots drinks so i have more energy, but then i wouldnt be able to go to sleep. Please help!!

I guess my first question would be why so late? How is the energy level on Weekends? Are y'all on the same schedule (Get up at the same time in the morning?). Also how old are you (Approximate like early 20's, more than 100, etc.)?

i think the reason i am tired is because well i am busy, i work full time, and i am a full time student. he is also a student but only works part time. we are on completely different schedules, i have to be to work weekdays by 6, his earliest class is at 9 (then he goes back home and takes a nap usually) but he works 4 to 9. so by then i am beat so nothing usually happens during the week but on the weekends, we go out with our friends, so nothing happens until we get back, usually early morning. this is totally messing with my normal schedule, so i am just tired. but i still want it.

also i am 20 he is 23

Well life is about priorities... you want better sex, take it a bit easier on other things... may be getting home a bit earlier when you are out with friends?

Human body can give and take just that much, you know?

try doing it laying on your sides. either facing each other or with your back to him...it's a good change of pace for those late night fucks.

I agree with Snowflake. Make some time and get some sleep. I have found a good night's sleep is a wonderful aphrodisiac. Also, Ajay's suggestion is a good one.

I have to go with getting some sleep. Maybe try to come home in the afternoon to meet for 30-60 minutes can result in great sex. My wife and I are on different clocks, so to speak, with her staying up past midnight most nights, me ready to konk out by 10pm (and then wake up really early). Like you, Allie, we're incredibly busy - try running your own business, dealing with a senile mother, raising a child, coaching two sports teams, AND being in your 40's. I'd LOVE to have that 20-something energy again! LOL Given all that, we still manage to find the time for hot sex.

You just have to get creative in your time management, focusing on getting enough sleep, of course, and you'll be fine.

Freddy your house sounds similar to ours, I am up to early hours in the morning due to working nights and hubby goes to bed practically as soon as I'm out the door and wakes up sometimes as I am getting to bed.different body clocks, come the weekend he is having breaky at 5:am and I'm doing brunch at 11:am so I can only eat twice a day and that in it self creates havoc at meal times as I'm not hungry.
As for sex if I go straight to bed when I get home I'm fine and I wake him up,if I get on the computer to wind down for an hour or so I'm cactus almost headbutting the keyboard and asleep as soon as I hit the pillow.
Weekends are best for catching up on nookies

Funny you should mention the laptop thing, Sexy. We used to "wind down" with a little bit of work at bedtime, bringing the laptops into bed with us and sitting next to each other with our heads propped up with pillows. Within minutes - sometimes seconds - my eyes would be closed and I'd be frozen in the typing position, my wife jostling me awake just long enough to put the laptop on the floor, readjust the pillows, and fall into full sleep.

In the last couple of weeks, I have stopped bringing the laptop into the bedroom (we've never had a television in there) and our sexual encounters have gotten WAY better.

Allie,

As cliche as this sounds, enjoy your relative freedom while you have it. You actually have the option of sneaking home for a nooner or whatnot. In our case, I work full time (as well as freelance on the side) and The Rev is in school and we have two little boys ages 1 and 2. Sex isn't happening a whole lot these days because while we're awake and have energy, we are chasing after to energetic boys. After we *finally* get them off to bed, there is homework and freelance to be done. After that, I'm asleep at my desk. The pisser is that schedule adjustment just isn't an option because it isn't OUR schedule that is the issue, it is the two kids' schedule and we've tried to explain "nookie-time" to them but they just don't get it for some reason...