I just found a fantastic video on Tantric Massage and just had to share it.

What tecniques or styles do the members use on their loved ones?

I learned how to massage pulled and sore muscles from my track coach. But that type of massage was too rough for romantic purposes. YEARS ago I purchased a couple of books and videos (yes VHS tapes) on erotic and sensual massages. These taught me to use a gentle touch and repeated motions. I would suggest doing some research to enhance the experience. There is plenty of free stuff on the internet and many how-to videos you can rent.

Now I usually suggest a warm bath (sometimes together and sometimes by herself), a glass of wine, and a book of erotica (when my wife is in the bath solo) in the evening to keep her from getting TOO relaxed.

MJ

It is all about mood and setting. Warm bath, candles, a good wine. It all sets the atmosphere.

Again it is also about the presence of each other. There is nothing like a bit of therapudic touch after a long day just to let your partner know that you are there and care.