Whenever I am on top, my parnter's penis slips out. Am I thrusting too much? He thought perhaps my knees need to be up closer towards him. Any hints for how to successfully master this position? How much do I thrust? Is it more of a gentle movement?

Also, he slips out from behind too....any suggestions?

Thanks!

Hmm, perhaps a nice grinding movement? I like to go back and forth between the two...when I grind, I sit on top of him with him buried deep inside me and rock my hips back and forth, circles, figure eights...he doesn't like it as much as thrusting (though I know men who like it more), but it's very...pleasurable for me . If you want to do the thrusting thing, maybe have him hold your hips and guide you, that might help too.

From behind can be tricky, I've had that problem before with my ex, but that was more because he had problems staying fully hard. Not that he went soft, but just not as hard as most men (does smoking cause this? We never did figure it out, he'd had that problem for a while...). Anyway, after finding f&e's website, I've sometimes thought about it, and wondered if a cock ring might have helped him with that. lol, but not going to bring it up to him. Anyway, it's something to think about, don't know if that's applicable in your case anyway.

Hope this helps, good luck!

We don't have this happen too often, but if we're going at it pretty hard then maybe sometimes. It's never happened though on our Liberators. We have the ramp/wedge combo. Maybe if his backside were lifted off of the bed with something like that then it'd make it a little easier to keep him inside.

Oh yeah, we used to have fun with me on top in our video game chair too. That worked really well and gives super deep penetration. If you have one then you might try it.

Good Luck!

S

Brook, get some liberator shapes, they help a lot. We have the ramp/ wedge combo and it works pretty good. I'd really like to have the Esse but there is no room for it in our house

The Bedroom Adventure Gear is very, very stimulating. I found a free photo illustrated electronic book that shows how to do the 26° pelvic tilt for intensifying orgasms. Wow!

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Providing size is not an issue, instead of him driving into you, or you hopping up and down on him, try grinding your pelvis back and forth against him, while he's inside you. Rather than hopping up and down, which can cause the penis to come out, the grind will still stimulate the two of you, and may- if done at angles- even add a clitoral stimulation to the act.

Its a more subtle movement, rather than the furious pole-bouncing that people often do, but it should keep him inside you, and lessons the risk of the dreaded broken-cock injury.

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You could also try and glide against his body facing him... it goes in the direction that the penis is shaped and possibly will keep him in you for longer periods of time...

Also, if you're facing away from him, you could lean back and put your hands on his chest or have him hold your hands... hense doing the same thing as above with the motion going with the penis shape.

~Kathy~

As an aside, erectile dysfunction is almost always a circulation issue, caused by different poor health issues like high blood pressure, diabetes, high cholesterol, etc. I'm not sure about smoking, though I know smoking has several health dangers.

Good diet, normal body weight and exercise not only keep you alive longer and make you feel better, but they enhance your sex life also.

While it's nice to watch my wife's boobs bounce in front of me, if I was slipping out, then a rocking motion would still put pressure on her clit. No? Heeeeeeee Hawwwwwwwww!