A couple of you have mentioned honey as part of your sexual play, and I'm curious. The boy and I have used food only once when I came home with a bucket of chocolate ice cream for that express purpose. It was some seriously fun and wild sex, but absurdly messy (though the dogs thought the clean-up was swell). I've often thought about whipping out a can of whipped cream, but I'm not really sure what's holding me back except my loathing of housework.

Any thoughts/suggestions about how to include food in play and what foods work best will be greatly appreciated.

dp

We've used edible body paints, such as those from Chocoholics, that are great tasting and less messy than ice cream. DP, whipped cream is just as messy, incidentally.

Foodies is an area that we haven't used to its full potential. We usually use food as an aphrodisiac for foreplay in an excellent dinner with esquisite vino and of course decadent desserts. But as Freddy has mentioned, there are some wonderful food paints such as Chocoholic, where in fact it's all natural ingredients, no added yuckiness. Whipped cream and honey are very yummy too, but remember, keep it out of any hairy areas. It will cut your fun time down to a complete stop. But then you could always go take a hot shower together, and that would start up the fun again, wouldn't it?!

She and I tend to stay away from food items during sex. We have a bottle of rich chocolate body �paint�, but don�t use it much, either. Our reluctance is caused by one nasty bout of candida, a yeast infection, which we read can be caused or encouraged by sugars in the vagina. It�s for that same reason that we only use non-glycerine based lubricants. It may not have caused it, but it doesn�t seem worth the risk.

Mind you, there�s nothing wrong with an ice cube, touching lips and tongue before being drawn down her body, in circles around her nipples, down over her belly to that lovely spot where thigh meets mound, then rubbed gently over lips already wet, a cube of cold poised over a secret place of warmth . . . .

But, I digress. Ahhh, love those digressions.

I went out to Home Depot with my best girlfriend last night. She lives quite far from me and just bought a house, so I'm going to help her do some light reno next weekend. I was asking her about this food thing (I'm really quite shy in person, and she's the only one I talk sex with) and she suggested frozen stawberries in the place of Blue's ice cube. She described how she likes to do this to her lover while we were hunched over the parquet. When we stood up there was one of the orange-clad helpers agape behind us, looking simulanteously shocked and horney. We giggled and moved on the tile.

dp

I think I need to go put in an application at your Home Depot!!!

dp,

I think I was one of those depraved individuals who admitted to using honey and other sweet things during sexual play. We have used honey, whipped cream, chocolate sauce, ice..... My favorites are honey and then the whipped cream.

The first time we used whipped cream was so funny - Taz brough the whole BIG container in our room and a knife like I was going to frost a cake!LOL He stood there like - what I am supposed to do now - I think he was going to dip Mr. Happy into it!! Well I took over and proceeded to devour and lick clean all his 'frosted parts'. He whispered something like, "I can't believe your eating whippped cream off my cock" and other sweet nothings in my ear. It was really incredible - we both loved it!

He has used both on me and I have never had a bad reaction afterwards - but I guess you have to watch out.

Waiting for that drop of honey to hit your skin (ass, clit, wherever you like) is incredible. I love using honey on his ass - it really gets him excited. We don't go completely crazy with it so we have never had a problem with a big mess - use the honey bottle that allows you to squeeze a drop at a time. Wonder what the boy would think if you cuffed him to the bed and came back with a can of whipped cream in one hand and a bottle of honey in the other - I know Taz would LOVE it!!! (If you're into that kind of thing!)

PS Sorry if this is tooooo much info!LOL

Not too much info at all, Bast -- a very good laugh, though. Sometimes I'll pass the boy a new toy and he'll give me a look that says "Now what do I do? Please help me?" so I could picture Taz's expression perfectly.

I like the honey idea, and the cuffs. I'm not at all cool with being constrained, but I suspect the boy would like it. I'll give it a go sometime in the next week or so and let you know how it works out...

dp

This is a area I have always found frustration in actual practice and I don't understand why. I simply love good food and wine and have always associated it with sex but it seems everytime I have tried to incorporate the two it has been less than expected. Now, as a prelude as Eddy describes, it's great but during it's been disappointing Have done whipped creme and honey both. It felt kind of contrived and both the husband and I like the natural taste of each other. We have had some fun with ice but it has always been in an impromptu manner, not Honey you just lay there and I'm going to the freezer, but rather a glass is handy when the mood strikes. Anyway I so would like to enjoy something like this. Guess I will just have to keep trying.

dp,

Taz isn't crazy about me restraining him completely - he wants either arms or legs free - maybe he doesn't trust me!LOL Maybe after another 20 years he will! I'm glad I didn't offend you by my suggestion. I would just love to see the expression on his face with you standing in the doorway fully 'loaded' and ready with sexy sweets in your hands! I have joked with Taz about him wearing a holster (yea it seems like many of us like that cowboy thing) packing two different flavors of lube! LMFAO (I am sure some of you could have done without that visual either.)

Doing things like this would have seemed contrived or too uncomfortable for me sometime ago. I feel completely different about it now. We either get a great laugh out of it, but usually it enhances the sex, and gets us thinking about other things we could try.

We both love the natural scent and taste of each other very much - it really turns us on. But this is a nice change once in a while.

dp-

I suppose honey is my favorite because it IS so sticky and hard to get off body parts. It's not messy if you don't get insane with it. I apply 2 or maybe 3 small drops on the clit or asshole and let it slowly run down this area. Then I spread it around with my tongue, and when I've frosted my little cake, so to speak, I take my sweet time licking it all completely off. Try it on "the boy's" asshole. If he is at all comfortable with you getting intimate with him back there, it'll at least put a big grin on his face when he recollects you doing this to him. It does for me.



As far as natural scents go - I love it all!. I always start my oral foreplay w/o anything so that I can enjoy the natural scents and tastes first and this gets me totally randified. Then I transition to something sweet mainly for the pleasure it brings to the recipient.

Taz, you're a friggin' inspiration! We have tried all sorts of things on HER, but I've only gotten a bit of chocolate licked off ME. I think I'll be sending Eddy straight to this thread immediately!

Freddy,

Taz continually inspires me! I hope he has given Eddy some sweet ideas!

You all have given me some great ideas, we have never tried edibles- Chocolate, strawberries, whipped cream, yummy. Can't stand the taste of Honey, but my husband seems partial to it..LOL
Honey

Wine soaked kisses are nice. There's a sweet picnic scene in the first part of Candida Royalle's Bridal Shower movie, complete with lots of champagne being poured recklessly over bare breasts, judicious application of cool fruit slices ie melon etc rubbed all over the skin and a few giggly moments with some whipped cream...could be good for inspiration.