I've had a G-spot orgasm once - through my husband "poking" the spot rather than rubbing/stroking, etc. He can't seem to find the right spot or the right touch again - we're so frustrated! Does anyone experience stimulation this way, and if so, can you PLEASE give some hints as to how to find our way back there?

Okay, your G-spot is about 2 cms up on the anterior (front) side of your vagina it feels slightly 'thicker and smoother' and in Grump's words 'soft and pulpy like a blister' (he fingers it more than I do) this area is EXTREMELY sensitive and should not be touched unless you are really, really aroused as it can actually cause pain.

I don't know what age you are but if less than mid 30's you may find clitoral orgasms easier to achieve than either vaginal or G-spot, women hit their peak sexually in mid 30's and just keep on going, they may slow down for a while during the menopause but then can rev up again. Men, on the other hand, are at their peak in their late teens early 20s!

ManLover,

Your guy must have a Gene Simmons tongue if he can reach your G-spot orally. Not to be rude, but are you possibly confusing it thinking she was asking about a C (clitoral) spot orgasm?

As granny said, the g spot is approximately 1-2 inches up the top side (if lying on your back) of the vaginal wall and has a texture to it unlike the surrounding tissue. The best way I've heard to truly find it is wait until after an orgasm of a different type and then the G-spot will become more pronounced. Hope this helps.

Ahh, I see. Most people typically refer to the G-spot as the specific bundle of nerves located in the vagina.

Hi Sexy,

If you're into toys at all then you might try something in the line of pyrex. They can give you more coverage than a finger and without getting your hubby's arm tired. I also own evereyone's favorite vibrating worm, "Patchy Paul." F&E sell him. If you like buzzing stuff then I bet he'd put a quick end to that frustration.

S

(Edit: Sorry SexyWife. I got to thinking about it and "Patchy Paul" really has nothing to do with poking. I've never had a g-spot O from a poking kind of stimulation, but I do think pyrex might work. I dunno, I was just rereading my post and thought it was a bit off, so I'm adding this. Good Luck! S)

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We found F&E when looking up info on exactly this subject! We found the following very helpful;F&E's How to....

Once you start to manipulate it properly, a whole new set of possibilities present themselves to you !!!

I would agree that if are just going for stimulation/G~spot orgasm, then the Worm is great, I also really like my Triton (Pyrex toy). Both are from F&E.

Goodluck, G.

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Originally posted by I'mHisSexyWife:
I've had a G-spot orgasm once - through my husband "poking" the spot rather than rubbing/stroking, etc. He can't seem to find the right spot or the right touch again - we're so frustrated! Does anyone experience stimulation this way, and if so, can you PLEASE give some hints as to how to find our way back there?

The rubbing stroking thing doesn't work for me as far as G-spot is concerned, I like a hard bumping sort of action, it needs to be quite firm, and steady, getting faster and harder. A single finger is too "poky" not a feeling I enjoy, more fingers are better, a toy with a smooth bulbous head ala my glass dildo. Multiple fingers are good if the hand sort of slaps and thumps against the rest of my vulva or ass depending on which way things are happening.

Don't be afraid to ask for more of what you need, more fingers, more speed, more pressure etc.

Well, my wife and I tried several times to get this to work. We got the G-Spot book and read it religiously. I pretty much gave up on it when some friends of ours showed us how to do it correctly. What we didn't realize was just how hard you had to thrust on the anterior wall of the vagina. It is really much harder then I ever though would be comfortable. Also, when you feel like you have to pee, just go for it. When you feel the urge to urinate, that means you are doing it right. Keep at it and even try to go. Only when you let go will you achieve this amazing phenomenon known as the G-Spot orgasm with female ejaculation. Here is a 3D animation to help you see just exactly what it is you are looking for inside of there. http://media30a.libsyn.com/podcasts/sexisfun/SIFVideo01.m4v Quicktime Required!!!
Enjoy,
Kidder

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My hubby and I found it by accident while vacationing over Thanksgiving. He was fingering me but instead of just inserting a couple of fingers straight and moving them around, he (for some reason) decided to hook his finger upward like he was making a "come here" motion in my pussy. I thought he was going to have to peel me off the ceiling! I never really paid any attention to the existance of my g-spot until I was trying to figure out what that particular finger-fuck session was so amazing. I've got a curved glass dildo but I'm not really good at hitting it on my own yet. It's just as well, as long as Hubby can find it, I'm ok!

That link doesn't work anymore...got another?? Oh forget it I went to the F&E link, I'll see if that helps me any! Prez and I are on a mission this weekend to get me to FE!

FL then relax, relax and relax some more... this is not something you can 'make' happen it just does! Or at least that is my opinion! Frankly I don't care whether it happens or not as long as I have a good time