My wife and i have been toying with the idea of adding a 3rd party to funtime, or finding someplace safe to go and find a 3rd, possibly a small swingers club. We want to enjoy 2 on one funtime with both a female and a male. We have run into problems with this where people who are "working" are not for us. We need someone who wants to be there to enjoy the experience. Does anyone have any suggestions that might help us find a safe small group, or person(s) who are like minded?

We've had some pretty good luck with

www.adultfriendfinder.com

It's free to join....however, you can't email anyone, you can just send off a "wink". If you upgrade your membership and pay some $$, then you can email others and do a few extra things that non-paying members can't.

Hope this helps.

Try this thread.

~Ang