Hi! Am a virgin bride and will get married to my wonderful fiance' this year. Yup! And I am trying to "edumacate" myself in this sphere.

I am only 4'10 118 lbs and he is 6'1 and probably 298 lbs. Definitely on the heavyset.

We have made a decision to keep the fun part for our honeymoon (the grand unveiling for me!)

But I am wondering if I could breathe during that time. I assume I'll be "inducted" first with the missionary position (newbie!!)

My fiance' is so excited. And whenever I bug him about how to go about it, he gives me a smile and says "it's a secret"

Am sure he has a game plan for the bedroom, but I am just thinking if there's something out there that we can use so I could be under him until I am comfortable doing the "acrobatic" positions?

I read an article about liberator wedge combo - will that help?

As long as he's up on his knees and elbows/forearms/hands to support the brunt of his weight, you'll be fine. If he says he has a game plan, just go with it and trust him. (Hey, maybe he has a swing handy... Hooray for him!)

Don't worry about it! It'll be fine! You two will work things out, and will figure out what works for y'all.

Just remember- the first time definitely won't be the best time. Practice makes perfect!

Here is an old thread on the topic. Congrats to you!

P.S. My guy and I are only a couple inches apart in height, but we LOVE our Liberator Wedge/Ramp combo! Best investment ever!