i asked my wife if i could give her a nice orgasm....and you all know you never turn down an O.

i lubed up the G-gasm vibe and inserted it, at the same time i concentrated on her clitoris with my other hand. after about 10 minutes of g-spot stimulation accompanied by clitoral massage, the bucking and grinding began. she moaned loudly as she clenched the vibe with her vagina, and threw her head back into the pillow. her whole body seemed to tense and grip centered on on the G-gasm. she moaned again and squirted a small amount of fluid and then asked me to stop.

i didn't say anything, just massaged her stomach and breasts as she kind of glowed for a while. she thanked me and we held each other. it was pretty good stuff.

i guess my question is this: since this was her first FE of any kind, is the small amount of fluid something that will increase, or is it because she wanted me to stop because of a peeing sensation? just curious if this has happened to others, and do i tell her to relax and let it all go??

hey Ajay, I think the question lies in communication. for you to really know, you need to know why she wanted to stop. if indeed it was due to an overwhelming desire to pee, then you have your own answer. ive seen this happen with Ms.Nigel, but she discontinues due to overwhelming sensitivity..(puts all her nerves right on end)

communicate! find out.

cheers!
Nigel.

yes. i intend to do so this evening, my question is to the later and the experiences of others.

I guess the whole let it go thing may be a lot easier if the logistics are sorted out from the very beginning, you know, fascinator blankett or something like that. I mean women all have that housewife reaction to messy things, wether they are housewives or not.

Also I think, when the pee feeling comes into the game it is easy to be scared. I mean it´s pee, hey, you don´t want to throw that at your lover, do you? Yes I know the whole golden showers thing, but it something that may put off a woman. T told me for a long time that he was fantasizing about that, but it took me forever to really believe it "in the flesh" so to say. So the whole peeing feeling has always been a block to me. But that will change oh, yes!

I think you should do all the possible to make her confortable, making her feel that even if she were to pee it wd not be a problem. ANd of course talk, ask, and see.
SOmething else about myself that may be true also for othber women.

When I am asked something "embarassing" about sex, I tend to shy away and don´t answer (sometimes aggressively so). But given a bit of time to think it through I become very willing to share and talk, and communicate. SO if you don´t get an answer ask again in a different moment and situation.

Good luck!

Hey Ajay,
From what I understand it is not always a huge amount of ejaculate. It doesn't always shoot out like a hose. The same way semen can be of different amounts, intencity....

The feeling of having to pee is something that she should learn how to ignore, or better yet use to her advantage. It takes time and practice to be able to stand it.

I don't know if everyone is the same way, but when I first started experiencing clitoral orgasms, it was too ticklish to finish. I couldn't stand it. But I learned how to power through the ticklish of it and it was then that I could fully enjoy those types of orgasms. I could only handle a few seconds of one - but now I can have extended orgasms just because I have had plenty of practice. It's like that.

Practice, practice, practice......

I think I'm getting closer to the actual splurge part. I now regularly can have the wavy, whole body type O. It seems to come from having my g-spot stimulated and breathing a lot.

But, if I'm not mistaken, just as you feel like you are about to pee, to splurge, you bear down instead of tense your kegels?

Is that right? I can't seem to get it. Any suggestions?

Amount doesn't matter at all. She had a super orgasm and that's that. The best advice we give to couples/females is to go pee before making love, that way even if it is urine coming out there won't be much of it. The thing in porn films where you see geysers is the result of lots of water and forced urination when the director calls for it. Those scenes shouldn't be called squirt fests as much as distance peeing contests.

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Originally posted by Freddy:
Amount doesn't matter at all. She had a super orgasm and that's that. The best advice we give to couples/females is to go pee before making love, that way even if it is urine coming out there won't be much of it. The thing in porn films where you see geysers is the result of lots of water and forced urination when the director calls for it. Those scenes shouldn't be called squirt fests as much as distance peeing contests.

Hey Freddy, this reminds me of a question that I've been meaning to ask.... Do you know which squirting stars actually DO squirt and don't fake it? If any?