My wife and I have always had a good sex life, but it could be better. There has always been one stumbling block (in my eyes), which is her inability to feel pleasure from intercourse. However, I can easily stimulate her G spot with my fingers which she enjoys tremendously.

There are no problems with clitoral orgasms, but when I am inside her, its as if we are going through the motions rather than her truely enjoying it.

I am not sure if I am not provided the right motion or position to hit the G spot with my member, but it is not happening. It seems like we have tried every position imaginable to make this work. The only really position that feels the best to her is when she is on top, but not resting on her knees, rather squating down with her butt bouncing up and down versus rocking motion. This pleasure, for some reason, is only specific to the shower.

I have suggested that she begin to masturbate with the Worm (great product BTW) so she knows what angles my penis needs to be at to hit the G spot.


This issue probably bothers me more than her, but in any case, I was hoping for some help in making intercourse more pleasureable.

Thanks.

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Not that I ever tried this contraption, but why not give a look?


Just an idea

You might try something to aid in the positioning of her pelvis or give her more freedom in her movements while you're coupled. The Liberator collection has a great assortment of aids, but if you truly want to try moving around with a lot more freedom I'd suggest the Bonker. The Bonker will give her a lot more freedom in her movements versus just changing the angle of penetration which is what the Liberator does. Also, if she likes riding on top, the ability to use more of her body in that motion will make it less tiring on her.

Beyond that, she could always try some kegel exercises to help strengthen her muscles in that region and possibly gain some additional feeling.

Everyone is different, but since you mention she has more success on top, I suggest experimenting with the 'reverse cowgirl' position. Depending on how the two of you line up, you might hit her g-spot. Here's a link to more information about it: Reverse Cowgirl & G-spot

Also, more kegeling certainly can't hurt, and might help.

Thanks for the replies. Ideally I would like to this problem to be resolved without the use of external aids (liberator and cock rings). I am not against these, I just want to solve the problem where it starts.

Cecily, thanks for the suggestion. Reverse cowgirl is one position that we have had some success (plus it is hot)! Anyway, I will suggest soem Kegal exercises too.

I think the reverse cowgirl idea has a lot of merit, and it has a concealed benefit. RC allows for a 'reach-around'. You can readily give her a helping hand, as it were. Perhaps by combining techniques, you can get her *accustomed* to having the big O through sex (perhaps with a little help), which might in turn help her to find the right place and be able to go au naturel. Of course, a little manual help is far from impossible in any position, but RC is far and away the best.