I'm a never-married Christian, coming from an alcoholic home. I've only had sex twice with the same teenage girlfriend. I performed oral sex once. Never masturbated my girlfriend, as I couldn't figure the anatomy part out [she to]. It's been decades, literally since I've touched a woman. I feel if I don't pretty soon, my cock will finally die. And, ... would you believe I've never even had a BLOW-JOB. That must feel nice. Any tips or hope for me. Part of my sexual in-activeness was because of being in a strict fundamentalist church, where everything's a sin. I wonder...where might I find someone nearby who would like to see if I can still get it up, and, perhaps, teach me a few things. I'd like to find a similar Christian woman, in this same predicament. THANKS FOR ANY HELP. LimpyDoodleDandy, from Manchester, NH

My suggestions (please take with a grain of salt, whatever that means):

Have you checked out the How-To section of Freddy and Eddy's website? http://www.freddyandeddy.com/howtopage.htm

The "Loving Sex" how-to videos are very good. I saw them while in college, and I learned a lot of very good things from them.

http://www.freddyandeddy.com/s...eo_Education_Series/

Finally, I strongly believe that Christianity and good sex are not mutually exclusive. In particular, I have come to the very freeing belief that masturbation is not wrong. It's been a long road for me on that one, but my wife and I are NOT passing on to our children the teaching that masturbation is bad.

Great sex to you and your partner-enjoy all of it you can.