I need some tips on being more sexy in public with DH. I'm pretty shy when it comes to exposing my body and even more so when it comes to tantilizing my husband. Perhaps I was a Puritan in another life!

But I need some hot sex!

So how do I do it? Tell me how to be seductive and flirty and more than a bit naughty without setting off all my inhibitions at once?

For example, I've thougth about going without panties (i know, pretty low on the kink meter) but what's really sexy about that if he can't take a look or cop a feel? lol How do I set THAT up?

Do I sound stupid? Before we got married we were pretty young and I was afraid of getting pregnant or being promiscuous and just too shy so I repressed all those primal urges 20 somethings have...now I feel like the 40-yr-old virgin; awkward!


jen

the old "cop-a-peek" at a restaurant is always a winner.

the elevator is way cool especially the glass ones.....use your imagination.

a blowjob in a parking garage is always fun...

just go out for the evening and be bold

I like to wear a low cut top and when I'm sitting across from B, lean forward and put my arms around my middle, pushing my breasts up. It creates some excellent cleavage and you can do it ever-so-innocently

I also generally wear bras with a thick lining, but sometimes I'll wear one with just lace or very little lining. If it's a little chilly where we happen to be, all the better!

Teasing a man is only 10% what you wear. The rest is how you act and what he knows.

If you go out without panties, for instance, you'll definitely act differently. Either you'll be shy enough to be incapacitated, or confident enough to feel positively naughty and delicious and no one need ever know except him. Him knowing, giving you those knowing glances, whispering in your ear that he's going to spank that behind when you get home... it all keeps the pot boiling.

ladies.

anything that reminds a man of a particular "treat" is filed happily away under the great file of pleasurable things. a scent, a motion. even a mannerism. and Zing! the connection is made. and often not subtly.

there are still perfumes that just elicit incredible reactions from me. lol
or a look, or even a certain smile.

were on hormonal autopilot. its not our fault!
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N.

does he have a favored pair of panties, or maybe some other garment that you don't wear often?

sometimes when we go out I will wear my Braci, my red crotchless panties or the lace up the back semi crotchless and after we get to where we are going I will tell him.. gets him every time..

things that are a little secret....perhaps get a vibrating panty and give him the control to it!

Take him to dinner in a nice skirt...excuse yourself during wine and conversation, before you eat and head to the ladies. Remove panties and wad them up in your hand.

Reach across the table when you return and pass them to him.

you guys are crackin me up!

alright i'm gonna try out these ideas. now, if only my husband can keep from saying something really stupid before we can make it to bed! lol

Try "flashing" in public. This would get my interest up

How about starting slow with a picnic on your deck/backyard/porch/balcony and do a little necking (wear something loose with nothing underneith). Or go for a walk in a park or around the neighborhood (even a mall) and playfully tweek his butt or sit on his lap on a park bench and kiss him passionately.

In otherwords -- court him again.

MJ