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| <WednesdaysChild>
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I simply cannot do this. Isn't there a book on the subject? Any advice? I realize the main sex organ is the brain. (and maybe there's a small issue of trust here, too)
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enthusiast |
I had a problem with it for ages because I thought I sounded "silly" doing it and saying the stuff. I got involved with a lot of chat rooms online with cybering where you had to type it so I just started saying it as I was typing it. My first attempt at "talking dirty" I had to have some "dutch courage" or a few "pepsi's" (alcohol) then I didn't care if he laughed me outta the bedroom he wasn't gonna be getting any so really I had nothing to lose and I could just blame it on the alcohol! It does feel very strange to be saying stuff out loud but it's pretty much whats going on in your head anyway.
I'm not sure if there are any books out there but some of the others might know and I'll leave them to share their opinions with you. Good luck and enjoy it! Tigz XXXX |
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| <Freddy>
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We happen to have a book and we'll loan it to you; send us a PM with your info and it'll be on the way. Just send it back when you're done.
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dammit there really is a book and here I had to teach myself!!!
Oh wait I'm already too corrupted to do things the easy way and I had too much fun learning my way  Enjoy the book! Tigz XXXX |
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| <WednesdaysChild>
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I can't even do this after having more than a few drinks, perhaps the consequences of being an English major and having to weigh my words. I do emote -- moan and such, as the spirit moves me, but formulating sentences is beyond my ability during sex. Maybe it's a matter of where I prefer to focus my attention?
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I like this article on the topic -- Sexuality Org.
Do what's fun. I like dirty talk. My sweetie doesn't do it much at all. He likes it when I do, I like it when I do.  Having said that, it doesn't have to be elaborate -- I love when you... oh god I want to...Small "instructions" -- hold me hard, push into me, -- words of encouragement -- yeah like that...do you like it when...Good luck! |
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Beauty,Brains,Not to Busty |
Rain is right on as always.
You don't say whether you are in a long term relationship or not, but if you are your partner will know if it's forced or unnatural. My husband would fall out of the bed laughing if I screamed out " Shove it in me you big, sexy stud."  But if I tell him "Remember that time on the deck overlooking the beach. How I licked your..." or fantasies of mine or his work well also.Good luck, it seems a English major should be able to work through this.  |
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| <Freddy>
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From the mouth of an English major (yours truly) comes:
"Tell me how much you love my cock!" Repeat "Do you want daddy to fuck you? How bad do you want daddy's cock?" "Fuck yeah, you want me to fuck you harder, baby?!!! Tell me how hard you want me to fuck you!" "Show me your sweet ass, you little teasing bitch." And so on... |
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| <Scratchnbell>
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Damn Freddy,
I was just sitting here. I didn't know you even cared!  Sorry I had to! My wife and I have been working on this for while also. As others have said. Start slow and not too outrageous. Just say what you are feeling. Good Luck Scratch |
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| <Freddy>
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Examples, Scratch?
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Something profound. |
Quote: I'd just like to start by saying that any guy that laughs when she starts talking dirty should have his sex privileges permanently revoked. Seriously. Freddy's right on. My wife and I were both English majors, too, and she seems to be applying some of the things she learned in her creative writing classes... The best way to get her to go from pillow talk to dirty talk is for me to ask her open-ended questions. Heh, heh, 'open-ended'. Ahem. Once she puts what she wants into words, she just lets loose a blue streak of profanity that sends us both over the edge. Things like: "I know you want my cock. Where you want me to put it?" "Do you want a finger, a tongue or a toy inside you?" "How do you want me to fuck you, you sweet little slut?" She says the sexiest thing I ever said was when I was doing her from behind and I asked if I could have her ass. She turned into a frickin' curse-spitting sailor after that. One thing I'd like to note is that most of this talk sounds pretty ridiculous out of bed (try it--it's hilarious and we turned it into a party game). But when you're under the sheets, bodies touching and hands exploring, it works, man, it works. Mike (looking for a thesaurus) |
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| <Scratchnbell>
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Quote: On one hand I would agree but on another I would not. I love my wife dearly and some of the best times is when one of us does something out of character and we laugh. Were not laughing at each other were laughing with each other. Laughing in and out of the bedroom is great fun. On the other hand you are right. There can be a lot of insecurities in the bedroom. You have to feel secure with each other. She has done some real dirty talking but it is so out of character for her that it is obvious that she is trying too hard and that doesn't work. Don't get me wrong I enjoy the dirty talk just as much as the next guy, but I want her to feel comfortable. What works for her is more of the "oh yes, more!, harder!Deeper, ya baby, right there" and others. While these don't seem like all that much at the right time, they work and work well. It might be a place to start and work up to more nasty talk (if that is your goal)as you get more comfortable. You might even try to make a game out of it. See who could talk the dirtiest. Take turns, and if there are words that you don't feel comfortable with make them off limits before hand. It will force both of you to be more creative and possibly be more fun. Good luck Sorry Freddy if you didn't like me teasing you. Didn't mean to offend you. As mike said it can be funny when just reading them or saying them out of hand. Scratch |
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| <Freddy>
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Sorry, gotta go with Mike on this one - 100%.
Offending me, Scratch? Now that's funny. I just wanted you to share some of the things you guys say to each other that we might try ourselves! Eddy, I know you're out there lurking, let's hear some things YOU belt out in the heat of the moment! |
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Freddy and Eddy freddyandeddy.groupee.net Forums General Discussion How to... "talking dirty" -- big problem for me
freddyandeddy.groupee.net Forums General Discussion How to... "talking dirty" -- big problem for me