My significant other cant handle oral sex on her. She says it tickles too much. Instead she prefers G-spot O's which are easy for me to do but take so little time that I dont have any fun. Also her preference means that she is kinda a pillow queen.

Any sugestions?

I have issues with oral sex as well...it's just a different kind of sensation that I haven't had a whole lot of experience with...However, I love when my partner rubs my clit. Not necessarily fingering me--no real insertion is needed--but just rubbing. mmmmmm....

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Originally posted by ca_grown:
My significant other cant handle oral sex on her. She says it tickles too much. Instead she prefers G-spot O's which are easy for me to do but take so little time that I dont have any fun. Also her preference means that she is kinda a pillow queen.

Any sugestions?

What you may want to try is to not lick her clit directly, try just above it over the hood.. My GF is very sensitve on her clit so I tend to lick just above it.. and start really slow, try blowing or breathing on it first.. then just tap around the clit with your toung.. tease her. She may need a little warm up so that what she feels as tickling will turn more into a sexual feeling.

I'm the same way...but we figured out a way around that (at least for me...). If he stimulates my g-spot WHILE doing the oral, it distracts from the tickling and just feels damn good. If you haven't tried that, do!

how do you get to both at same time? Seems anatomicly impossible.

Easy. Two fingers in her to rub on her g-spot while you're going wild on her clit with your tongue. You still have a free hand to play with whatever else you want to.

Even better.. get a hitachi with a G spotter attachment in on her G spot whiel you lick yer clit.. (any G spot Vibe should (depending on the girl) do.. but I like the intensity of the Hitachi)

Sorry ND got to disagree with you on this. G's finger(s) are far better than any vibrator - he can FEEL when he has hit the spot and carry on stimulating it! Whilst loving my clit

Okay I've stayed out of this one until now CA has your significant other always had a problem with oral sex? In other words, sorry, but 'is this your technique?' or does she simply not like oral sex??

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Originally posted by Glamourous Granny:
Sorry ND got to disagree with you on this. G's finger(s) are far better than any vibrator - he can FEEL when he has hit the spot and carry on stimulating it! Whilst loving my clit

This does depend on the female.. My current GF needs a lot of intense vibration for a G spot orgasm..

Now if we are just talking about hitting the G spot to help with achieving a clitorial orgasm I agree with you.. go for the fingers..

though I find a dildo or vibe you can still get a better angle on thrust while your face is buried in clit (my arm tends to wear out with just my fingers)..

haha Im doing an airguitar version of this action at work right nowand i think its the fact that if the girl is lying on her back her legs make you have to have your arm at a n almost 90 degree angle from your body to achieve the angle needed to do both oral and G spot stim.. Im also not in the best shape so that could expalin a lot of this

im also goign on on her at a 90 degree angle.. I think if I were to face her straight on and do it I might be able to last longer.. I will hav to investigate this tongiht

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Originally posted by Glamourous Granny:
Sorry ND got to disagree with you on this. G's finger(s) are far better than any vibrator - he can FEEL when he has hit the spot and carry on stimulating it! Whilst loving my clit

I have to agree. On our toy shopping trip, we included a gspot vibe. She's tried it on herself and it doesn't come close to the sensation of my fingers. I know exactly where it works and quite frankly like the intimacy of being there myself instead of with a toy.

I prefer to have my clit sort of sucked at rather than licked with a pointy tongue, that sensation does nothing much for me. Also I think spreading the love around is more fun, thigh kisses and bites, sucking on her pussy lips, grinding your chin against her, nose nuzzling and fingers inside her, playing wih her ass at the same time are all good fun and sort of take the focus of her clit a bit. I like rubbing and stimulation that goes kind of above my clit and around it with the occasional swipe, lick, stroke, suck right across it. Pace and rhythm are important too, if it's perfect and she's telling you so, don't stop or change what you're doing.

Can I add my two cents? You don't mention how old she is or how experienced. Since you mention the tickling, let me point out she might not be aroused enough. Sensations change depending on the state of arousal. What might not feel good when you start out, feels really good later on. She also might be tensing up, distract her pay attention to her legs, feet, back of her knees, work your way to her thighs and pass around your attentions. Don't focus solely on the clit being your final destination. Move around a bit, but before you do anything make sure she is sufficiently aroused. Take your time with her. That can probably help both of your enjoyment.

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Originally posted by Qadesh:
Can I add my two cents? You don't mention how old she is or how experienced. Since you mention the tickling, let me point out she might not be aroused enough. Sensations change depending on the state of arousal. What might not feel good when you start out, feels really good later on. She also might be tensing up, distract her pay attention to her legs, feet, back of her knees, work your way to her thighs and pass around your attentions. Don't focus solely on the clit being your final destination. Move around a bit, but before you do anything make sure she is sufficiently aroused. Take your time with her. That can probably help both of your enjoyment.

Age and experience are definate considerations.. The GF when we first got together had never felt any G spot sensation.. and it took a while for her to realize I was stimulating it.. also the squirting thing.. she was convinced shed never be able to do that..