Been married a while and have an okay sex life. The sex is good, it's just my wife is meat-and-potatos and routine. I on the other hand want to experiment and try different things and positions. When we married my wife was considerably more experienced then me, so she knows what gets her off and sticks to it.

I've told her both during pillow talk and normal conversation I'd like to try new things and do some kinky stuff, but it never seems to translate or go far. The best I've done is to get her interested into Doggy style and masturbating me (she also seems to enjoy watching me masturbate myself, but she never masturbates).

Another example is when I go down on her she won't let herself cum. She raves about it while I'm down there and gets really wet, but always pushes me away at the last second. She says she wants my dick more, but that's not the whole truth. She's holding herself back here and with other things in the bedroom.

A few times I've really gotten her worked up good and she's let go cumming all over my face and getting a bit wild in bed, but these time as few and far between.

Any suggestions? Think we could take sex to next level if my wife would open up some more and let herself go with the pleasure...

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Tell her play by the rules or the penalty is there will be no Finale! :-)

Varmint,

Hmmm, that's interesting to me. I had a girlfriend my senior year of high school with which I had everything-but-intercourse sex, which was very pleasurable for me (she was my first sexual partner). She really enjoyed making me cum. However, over the few months we were having sex, she never once had an orgasm. I wasn't aware of the clit then, but she really enjoyed me fingering her vagina, and would almost cum. She would let me get her almost there, I mean right on the edge, then make me stop and pull out. A couple of times, she would get so close I would have to be completely still, not even able to move enough to pull my finger out.

To this day, I have no idea why she would not orgasm in my presence. We never talked about if she masturbated. I knew she had had a previous sexual partner which she had intercourse with (she said only once, but I was suspicious), but I don't know if she ever orgasmed with him either.

It sounds like your wife and this girl may have something in common. Maybe a past hurt? A bad sexual experience? I hope you figure out what is causing your wife's inhibitions, and maybe through that I will gain some understanding of what happened to me these sixteen years ago.