Ok I will admit that I am a pretty plain vanilla kinda guy, but in my wanderings I have seen some interesting things.

One of those things that I see and I just don't quite get (you'll probably hear me say that many more times in the coming months) is fisting. Just to reasure Songchick, this is not something I am interested in trying. But man it really makes me wonder....

Now as a man I see fisting porn and I just think:

1. I can't compare to that!
2. OMG doesn't that hurt!
3. That has got to be dangerous!
4. She will never feel a penis again!

So I have to ask what, why, how? Any body with experience in this area care to enlighten me.

No experience here.

I do wonder......

I've had two babies....
Both of them had heads the size of a large fist.....
gotta say that it REALLY didn't feel so good coming out.....
So.......
can't imagine something of that size could feel too good going back in again....

Wondering the same thing as you

See, my thinking was if it can stretch for a baby then it can certainly stretch for a fist.

I imagine it's 20% lube and 80% psychological.

Now, anal fisting looks scary...

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See, my thinking was if it can stretch for a baby then it can certainly stretch for a fist

Yes....but was it comfortable when it "stretched" for the baby

Honestly didn't find it that bad.

But they say time fades the memory!

From a guy's perspective it's kind of a weird fascination type thing. I've never actually "fisted" anyone, but if the girl is into it, it's always been fun to see how many fingers you can use on occassion. Obviously some girls get off on being stretched to the limits, etc, but for my point of view, it's just as interesting to feel her around you when it's that tight.

We can get almost everything, but seems my pubic bone just doesn't want to budge going from the outside. Although with my twins, the one was coming out like Superman, so the doc had to shove basically his whole arm up there to move the kids around...but yeah I was on drugs and it was 2:30am, so I was quite out of it, lol.

I don't mind a good "fisting" every now and then. We don't ever get the whole hand up in either spot, so it's not true fisting, but it's fun to try and see how far we can get it. Maybe one day everything will fall into place and he'll get the whole hand in one hole...we'll have the camera ready!

And everything goes back to normal, nothing gets stretched out!

Fisting rocks. More on that later.

Also look for a review soon (I'll have it written by the end of the week, no guarantees when it'll be up on the site) on a great fisting book.

~Ang

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Fisting rocks. More on that later.

OK, you've definitely got my attention here. Fess it up, woman! How much "later" is later?

I have a pretty large hand, so getting it all the way into my wife - who is pretty petite - would be difficult. We once read a great short erotica piece where a woman was getting a massage and the masseuse got her so relaxed she let him fist her. We're intrigued, but it would take a LOT of lube and I'm sure I'd have to go REALLY slow. I'd certainly like to do it to her.

been there.
done that.

Details?

i don't mind answering questions, but i'm sure you're not looking for a play by play so any specific questions?

Play by play... inspire me.

I don't mind admiting it half the reason I come here is for the play by play. Wow i guess that makes me somewhat of a voyeur.

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Originally posted by Heroic:
Ok I will admit that I am a pretty plain vanilla kinda guy, but in my wanderings I have seen some interesting things.

One of those things that I see and I just don't quite get (you'll probably hear me say that many more times in the coming months) is fisting. Just to reasure Songchick, this is not something I am interested in trying. But man it really makes me wonder....

Now as a man I see fisting porn and I just think:

1. I can't compare to that!
2. OMG doesn't that hurt!
3. That has got to be dangerous!
4. She will never feel a penis again!

So I have to ask what, why, how? Any body with experience in this area care to enlighten me.

Many women will say size does matter, but they are sometimes talking about girth, not length. Fisting proves it with an exclamation point.

This is something K and I only do every couple months, and only when she's reeealllly in the mood--probably because she's sometimes sore the next day. She doesn't come right out and say she wants to be fisted (will Ang or one of the other ladies PLEASE come up with a sexier term??), but she will beg me to keep inserting fingers. The feeling turns her on so much, we don't need any extra lube.

When I've got 4 fingers in, she's literally thrashing on the bed. When I move my thumb into position, it's all she can do to keep from screaming with pleasure. About 10 seconds later, she's pulling me up by the hair and replacing my fingers with my cock. She doesn't let me last long after that.

And like First Lady said, it doesn't have to be the whole fist to be damn good. From what I can tell.

As to Heroic's fears:
1. For K (and many women I expect), it's not about comparing you to a bullet vibe or a dildo the size of a missile silo. It's about me being there--she's not going to replace me for any of these other things. It's just that sometimes, she wants it gentle; other times, hard and fast; and sometimes, she wants to be flipped over and fucked in the ass. Guys, myself included, have troubles getting past the whole comparison issue sometimes. (I am bigger than her ex-boyfriends, but aren't we all bigger than their exes? )

2 & 3. BELIEVE ME, she'll let you know when there's the smallest amount of bad pain. That should prevent much of any danger potential.

4. Women are pretty elastic (please forgive the unflattering descriptor), and I imagine it would take much more than the occasional fisting to cause a permanent change. K still feels every stroke, baby. (did I just high five myself?? )

So...make sure she's giving direction, relaxed, and well-lubed. And go slowly. You'll love it. But not as much as she does.

M!