ok... so i was having sex withmy boyfriend last night.. and this has NEVER HAPPENED TO ME!! but i wasnt as clean as i thought i was and although i didnt fully do the do... there was an odor and possible debris... Im new to the anal sex thing and i want to stop this from ever happening again.... NEVER!!! please suggest what u can....

Hi Romeo
If you are not sure use an anal douche - not an enema which will go way to high. Otherwise a soapy finger in the shower...

Also use the find function enter the words 'anal sex' and un-tick the box 'this forum only' you'll be amazed at the wealth of advice.

Just remember not to be embarrassed sex can be messy and that is okay too.

make sure you give it some time before and not just before you get busy so you have time to make sure all of the water is out.

We both use a douche and have never had any issues or feelings of being dirty.