back in high school i had what i thought was just a typical sweetheart crush on a good friend. when i got married right after high school i thought that was the end of it, especially since he went into the navy and disappeared from radar. after the divorce i tried finding some of my old friend. on myspace a few weeks ago i found him. we've talked a few times through that email system and my old feelings came right back. could this be something more on my end, and normally if i like a guy i have no problem telling him, but i don't know if he's only going to remember the nut job i was back then or the woman i am now. i'm trying to initiate conversations that would let us get to know each other but i'm afraid of coming on too strong...can any of you give me advice on this...and remember that he is a handsome man and i'm slightly on the chubby side still, i don't know if that will matter but it's a thought. please help me

If you both are single then go for it.

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If you both are single then go for it.

life's to short to second guess yourself....it'll either work out or it won't. just go forward.

Although I am still paying alimony on my own similar experience, there was a time when I never thought that would be the outcome.

Real answer: go for it. You are not me. He is not my ex.

Don't worry about weight. Age or weight. Nothing to worry about. Waste of time. Don't give it a second thought. It's nothing. Really. I'm not kidding.