and joining the boards rather than lurking and only reading your posts.

very quickly because the wee ones are stirring (we have a four and nearly three year old) - my partner is a lovely dude and we've been married for five years, together for 13. He was the one because we moved in together six months after dating only on the weekends.

We've had a long stretch of sexual lull. Stress and children will do that to you. Prior to this past month, we had not had sex for going on two years. It was pretty awful. But the reasons don't matter now because the sex is better now than ever, even when we were 20-somethings with more energy!

the kids are really screaming for me now, but I'm looking forward to being a member of this very wonderful community. cheers!

First of all, welcome!

There are many on this forum that can relate to your exact situation. Come on in, share, read, learn and above all Enjoy this diverse comunity. You will find the hosts easy to get on with as long as you read the the welcome posts at the beginning of the sections. This is a moot point as I am sure you already have.

Enjoy and feel free to PM any of the mods if you have any questions. Post often but never just to post and especaly in my area of responsibility.

Hi there!

Basil and I are parents of twins, so we completely understand the dropoff in sex. But when we started again, it was better than ever. I'm sure you'll have some great stories to share and I'm looking forward to reading whatever experience and advice you can bring to the boards.

hello!

*waves*

you're gonna love it here!

married with an 11(almost 12)-year-old. this site and the forum members have empowered me!