First of all let me say if you are ever in LA you absolutely must stop in and visit Freddy and Eddy. I went in today for the first time after frequenting their web site for years. What else can I say other than today I made two wonderful new friends. Anyway, while I was in the store the topic of prostate massager's came up and I mentioned that I would post a little something about them.

The prostate massager's I am talking about here are hands free meaning that after you insert them you manipulate them with your pelvic and abdominal muscles only. Aneros and Nexus lines.

I guess the first big question about these things are… Do they work? Absolutely yes, and in a couple ways too.

The first way of using the massager and the easiest is what is known as the Super “T” or super traditional orgasm. This one is just as it sounds, insert the massager and have a traditional orgasm with ejaculation either during intercourse or masturbation. For me the massager made a traditional orgasm bigger and more intense. I felt the results from this the first time I used it.

The second way and probably the one that is most hyped is the super “O” or super orgasm. This is a non ejaculatory prostate orgasm. As the story goes a man can have multiple orgasms lasting several minutes in duration and he can even have hands free ejaculation on demand. Is this true…. Or is it folk lore? It is absolutely 100% true. In fact just last night I had 6 super “O”’s each lasting anywhere from about 2 minutes to the last one going no less than 10 minutes ending with a super t all hands free. It was so intense that I actually had shed tears. When all was said and done I was completely spent. Some nights I will retire to the bedroom an hour before my wife to warm up with the massager and have a super “o” or 2. Then when she comes up to bed we can have make love for a long time…. And I‘m not talking 10 minutes try over an hour. If I leave the massager in I can still have a super “o” when I want while we are in the throws and I can decide when I want to finish up if you know what I mean.

So by now you are probably thinking one of two things either where is my credit card…. Or this guy is full of it. I promise you I’m not full of it and I’m not representing anyone. Also if you think that this thing will make you a sexual dynamo the first time you use it think again. So before you break out that card let me give you a little back story.

I’ve been using prostate massager's for about 3 years and though everyone is different I suspect that most guys will be like me. The super t was easy. From the first time I used it this worked. The super “o’ however was a very different story. It took me almost one year to the day to crack the code. I spent a lot of time researching and blogging and practicing. I practiced on average 2 -3 times a week. I tried every possible position and purchased several different massager's. At times it was very frustrating but I did finally get there. See here’s the thing… achieving an orgasm this way is completely different than what most of us guys are used to. It is not a purely physical action…. It’s a mental game. In fact while going for a super “O” you should not touch your penis at all. Have you ever heard your wife or girlfriend describe arousal and orgasm. They usually say they have to be in the mood and to hit an orgasm requires a certain amount of mental focus. It’s pretty much the same thing here in fact when I talk to my wife about the super “o” she says it sounds very similar to her orgasm…. More mental and less physical. Oh and as for the hands free ejaculatory orgasm… I just got that dialed in a couple of months ago… 3 years later. Think of it this way if you want to get in shape you have to put in the time at the gym. It’s the same thing here. It may happen the first time you use it or it may take longer… even a year but with practice and patience it will happen.

IMPORTANT. You will need to put in the time, so if you are thinking of sneaking around with it and quietly getting in a session think again. Not only will you make a lot of noise… yes moaning and groaning ( I often have to bite a pillow… and I’m the quiet type according to my wife) you will also writhe around a bit. Basically you will need uninterrupted solo time usually about an hours worth. I got my wife on board right away and now we both enjoy the benefits.

Which one to buy? That is a tough question. It’s such a personal thing. My wife is constantly giving me a hard time… you’ve only got one butt how many of these things do you need. Right now I have six. I own the almost the entire Aneros line Eupho, Helix, Mgx, Maximus, and Progasm (no sgx) and a Nexus Nero. It’s hard to rate them as each has its own unique feel but my favorite would probably be the Progasm for the usual solo session. I like the Eupho for sleeping with (imagine waking up in the middle of the night completely turned on in full orgasm that lasts for minutes… the down side is you won’t get a full nights sleep and your bed mate might think you are having a seizure but what a way to go). The helix MGX and Maximus are great for intercourse. The Nero is awesome if you want a really hard massage…. I tend to use it for my quickies when I’ve only got 15 or 20 minutes. The Nero’s orgasms aren’t as big but they come on fast for me. I ain't complaining. Generally I would say avoid using a massager with a vibrator because it just over sensitizes the prostate. When I’ve tried adding a buzz to my massager's, though it felt great, I was never able to generate a super “o” ; however, right now I’m considering a Rude boy massager by the same people who brought you the rock chick. Their idea for prostate massage is a bit different but very intriguing.


There is just so much to say about this subject but I’ve rambled enough for tonight. There is a ton of great information on the Aneros web site forum. Almost everyone on there is a user and there are some great polls. I’ve posted there several times myself. The great sage of Aneros is a user that goes by the name BMAYFIELD<<< this guy really helped me along the path. He’s kind of like an Aneros Jedi.

http://aneros.com/forum/index.php

Cheers
Ward

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Damn. I need to get out more. Well, you know what I mean.

I haven't experimented a lot with this, but I know that little thing is in there, just waiting to be touched the right way.

Jody,
Do you use one? How long?

I discovered the joys of prostate play earlier this year, and it has become an obsession of mine. The feelings are very different from "normal" orgasms and are kind of hard to describe. The great thing about prostate orgasms is that you can have tons of them, and they frequently last several minutes. It really is amazing. I also own most of the aneros models. I also several dildos, and njoy pure wand, a crystal wand, plus several other toys. Once you get started, it really is hard to stop. my favorite toy, and the one that works best for me is a Phallix g spot toy. The hardness of glass is perfect for prostate play. To anyone contemplating prostate play, I say give it a try. You have no idea how great it can be. I am a straight guy, who now can't get enough of anal play.

Welcome Ward, Jody and Zola!
You are men that we have been waiting for! To add a topic of prostate play, which I think our boards have been wanting.

Ward, it was a pleasure meeting you! We could of drank Freddy's latte and chatted with you all day! Also, thanks for keeping me company with the kook outside!

I think you might have opened a door for Freddy, no pun intended!

Ward is right. Prostate toys are a wonderful. I have three of the Aneros models and I love them all. I can have some truly awesome non ejaculatory O's using them. And do it over and over again.

Go for it! I think the key to multiple O's with or without the prostate stimulation is to relax, concentrate on how good it feels. If you find your self ever "bearing down" relax. Like any tool you need to let it just do it's job, don't force it.

My wife always uses an anal toy to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. Really intensifies my orgasms. Toys we enjoy are Anal T, Anal E-Z Bend and Spectragels Vibrating Anal Tool. Recently we purchased a new toy-Vibrating Anal Twister Strap On. It can be used either as an anal toy or as a strap on. We use it both ways it is fantastic. Many years ago I never dreamed that I would like this type of play, but then as I began to understand the prostate better we purchased an anal toy and my wife used it to massage my prostate during a blowjob and WOW-I was hooked. My orgasms with prostate massage are so intense. My wife especially likes to use the strap on on me. The toys I mentioned are all small and insert easily with lube. By the way-I am a completely straight guy. Try it and you will be hooked too.

Just out of curiosity, how much of a learning curve is there? I mean I'm a real novice when it comes to all things prostate. I've experimented myself but it felt more uncomfortable than pleasureable on the several occasions I went spelunking in my own tunnel of love. Maybe I'm not doing it right. Or need different equipment. Or maybe a tour guide.

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Originally posted by Bad_IDA:
Just out of curiosity, how much of a learning curve is there? I mean I'm a real novice when it comes to all things prostate. I've experimented myself but it felt more uncomfortable than pleasureable on the several occasions I went spelunking in my own tunnel of love. Maybe I'm not doing it right. Or need different equipment. Or maybe a tour guide.

It just took me an hour or so with the Aneros. I find that what works for me is insert it, using a fair amount of lube, then leave it in for a while while doing other things. When it feels comfortable and natural is when it works best. There are a lot of go techniques on the aneros website. One thing that works for me is to stand on my toes so that my heel is just off the ground, I tighten my sphincter muscles about 25% and just the natural movement is all it takes to start rocking. The sensation is subtle, you have to just pay attention to it and enjoy it. I does not take me long.

The learning curve is very different for everyone. Some people get it right away others take time. It took me almost a year to get a real Super O (Super Orgasm). I had a lot of fun along the way. I actually had one or 2 small super o's very early on then was unable to find them for a long time. The thing is you are basically training your brain and your prostate to be receptive to sexual arousal... it just takes practice. Unfortunately the more you pressure your self to have a super O the harder it is to find it. Enjoy the ride... It's all about being aware of subtle feelings in your body and then learning how to help egg them on. You've got put in the time. Trust me the payoff is VERY worth it. Not only in the super O catagory but when I'm having intercourse I can go as long as I want because I can sense what is going on in my body long before the point on no return. Here's another kicker, with a little focus and relaxation I can bring on a small super o in about 5 minutes anywhere anytime with no massager. The Aneros web site forum is loaded with great info. Are you using a massager?
http://www.aneros.com/forum/index.php

A Super O with no massager? Wow. You're like the Gandhi of prostate stimulation. If you sat on a mountain, I might climb it just to bow to your divine powers. No I wouldn't. Yes I would.

To answer your question, I do not have one. I've been to www.malegspot.com and searched around. I've considered getting either an Aneros (Helix) or Nexus or something else but haven't pulled the trigger yet, mostly because my limited experience hasn't really been all that sucessful (or pleasureable). I just know I'd expect immediate results and might get frustrated if I couldn't get there in a week or so of use.

Hardly... actually my experiences are fairly common with users who really stick with it. You have no idea how frustrating it was hearing all these people getting it so quickly while I just ploded along. Once I got it figured out things just evolved... and continue too. It keeps getting better. I have to admit I don't get to use it as much as I would like (wife and 3 little ones), but when I was learning I was averaging twice a week. I wouldn't go much more than 2 or 3 times a week. You don't want to dull the sensation. I would also refrain from ejaculation for a couple three days to really amp up your arousal. I even went as far as to edge on between days just to get my self really amped up for a session. As for the tool of choice well.. I'm a tall guy and I was getting very little sensation from the MGX, Helix or the Eupho. My first super O came with the Maximus. I then got the Nexus Nero and it work really well. It's kind of pointed and really focused the massage... It gives a hard massage. I could really feel it and that gave me something to focus on. The super O came on much quicker and I got a lot better at it. Then Aneros released the Progasm so of course I had to get it. Though it is more sublte that the Nero it is far superior. This is by far the best for me. One night it literally brought me to tears it was so good. It was just relentless. I was completely spent physically. I would call it the Rolls Royce of prostate massager's. I discovered that the bigger models worked better for me. I still use all the models from time to time. They are all so different. Like I said my go to is the Progasm, but nothing can top the Eupho for the sleep session... when you sleep with it in. It's small enough for me to fall asleep with it in and it moves so much more than any of the others. No kidding it will wake me up every couple of hours in full tilt super o... you wake up in a haze all horny as hell just writhing around... luckily my wife is a sound sleeper because with in a few minutes of waking up I'm biting my pillow to fight back the heavy breathing and moaning (and I'm the quiet type too). Needless to say don't try this if you need to be alert the next day. If your lucky you will get 3 or 4 hours of sleep. I still haven't been able to make it all night. Usually after the second awakening I'm so exhausted I take it out and crash hard. In a nutshell if I could only have one it would be the Progasm for certain then the Eupho then the Nero. I would avoid anything that has a vibe in it until you can generate the sensations you are looking for. Vibes just dull and desensitize everything after a couple of minutes... trust me, though it will feel good initially it will fade quickly and you will not get where you want to go ultimately.
Cheers
Ward

I have discovered my prostate over the last several years, and it has really broadened my view of sexuality. I think our culture is so hung up on the "gay" issue, it really scares a lot of people away from it. That's a shame. The bottom line: The prostate, gentlemen, is YOUR g-spot!!!

My wife is not exactly the most comfortable with all things sexual - I think that if I presented her with a strap-on suggestion she would faint!!! So the Aneros (and other similar products) are it, and kept quiet. Of course, if she finds it I'll explain what it is.

First off, I totally agree that you need time. LOTS of time. One of the keys (to me) is knowing I am alone and will NOT be interrupted. (I usually do this when wifey is out on business trips!) I like to start with a shower, then shave down there, then watch various porn items (YouPorn, ShotatHome videos, etc), then I go upstairs where it all set up (blanket on the bed, toys, lube, syringe , tissue. Getting aroused early on is important because prolonged erection (from the porn) swells up your prostate. The toy hits it better, then.

I have the MGX, the Helix, and I also have the Tantus Protouch. I am already considering an actual dildo, like maybe the Tantus Acute, or one of the NJoy products. Let me lust say that once you have climaxed from your prostate, a regular orgasm (while still great!)seems really basic and ordinary.

I have the most screaming, heaving intense orgasms with it, though I have yet to experience the fabled "Super O" - although I am sure they happen. I think it is a more nuanced thing.

Anyway, yes, try it. You will like it. If you are nervous about your butt, stick your finger there a few times during showers to get used to it.

I have an Aneros MGX. I've had it for about a year. So far, I've had no luck. Absolutely nothing.

I've thought about trying another model or brand. However, they're all about 50 bucks.

Any ideas on another model/brand that may be more likely to produce results?

Thanks,
Bob

I've been looking at these forums for a while and found them to be interesting and informative...but never thought of asking my own questions. Eddy convinced me to sign up and ask questions..."how else can you get answers unless you ask."

So, here goes...

I have the Aneros Helix and Tantus Protouch. Although I'm a novice to prostate massage, I've found that the experience to be exciting and has given me a better look into my own sexuality. I'm learning more about myself and what feels good. And to this end (no pun intended), I know that different toys provide different sensations therefore producing a variety of pleasurable experiences.

To add to the experience, I've been looking into some of the other models of massager out on the market. For ease, I'm looking at ones that are "hands-free". I've researched the Nexus line of massagers, specifically Titus, Gyro and O. Does anyone have experience using any of these? Is it as "hands-free" as they claim?