I'm just filled with questions tonight.

My boyfriend says that he doesn't like cockrings because his pubic hair gets all tangled up in them (I'm assuming that he's used the stretchy gel ones).

Personally, I've never been with someone who's used one, but the vibrating kind intrigue me (which are usually the stretchy gel kind, no?).

Any suggestions?

grab some scissors/a razor/clippers/ and start trimming.

I wish it were that easy, but he's not one for manscaping.

Plus, I think he's under the assumption that they're for people who need help in the longevity department, which he doesn't.

Yea well, no manscaping and assumptions of that kind... I´d say he needs some basic education about the fun and playfulness of sex. It is not all about being big and hairy and male.

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It is not all about being big and hairy and male.

og take exception. og like drag nukles on graund.
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Take my wookie of a husband, for example. Even HE understands that you just can't have as much fun with sex if your wife is gagging on pubic hairs two seconds into the blowjob. Granted, this doesn't always happen, but it feels better for him, too.

~Ang

He needs to get a metal cock ring then! No catching of the hairs. But the metal ones, don't vibrate. But if you are able to get him to agree to a metal kind, he will LOVE it!

And there is nothing wrong with not shaving if he doesn't want to. We both have times where we let our hair grow for fun and we're able to give oral just fine. You work around the hairs.

I also agree, a little manscaping can't hurt. I can't imagine anyone would enjoy flossing their teeth at the same time they're oraly pleasing their partner I personally love a manscaped man, and B does a great job for me and I for him. If you trim and groom your southern regions, he should be able to do the same for you...maybe he'll let you do it for him?

As for the cock ring, I agree with Prez and FL. Try a metal one! We haven't used one before, but the other reviews on the site of them definitely make us want to!

well, my hair would "grab" the steel ring when i would bend over or sit, so away it all went...and it's sooooooo much better.

Definitely a metal ring and definitely smooth down south - G never got me to go down on him with any enthusiasm until he started shaving. Twice a week just a few minutes and he is smooth as a babies bottom

Thanks for the replies.

I'm going to discuss it with him again - the ring and the manscaping.

Just try to make him understand that trimming is not some sort of effeminate hobby, but simply a way to take care of yourself, like trimming your hair and shaving your beard, AND incidentally that it makes sex a lot more enjoyable for both. There may easily be an increase in bjs for him in the future (but that is up to YOU) and certainly it will be nicer in general. Once you shed the fur down there you realize that up to that day you were having sex with thick mittens!

Tell him he will look at least an inch bigger once he has no fur round his erection - that should wake his ideas up

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Originally posted by Glamourous Granny:
Tell him he will look at least an inch bigger once he has no fur round his erection - that should wake his ideas up

That's so true! Kind of weird, but it's a great ego boost for the guy, kind of an optical illusion

Yum, I love going down on B when he's freshly manscaped, nothing like a nice smooth guy! As Snowflake would say, "slurp"!

Even better, Coffee girl, show him these posts. They're full of ladies talking about how sexy and fun it is

With a cock ring shaving is definately the way to go. I have a metal ring and it goes on so much easier when I a fully shaved. The combination of the cock ring and having it smooth down there brings oral sex to a new level.