First off, I just stumbled upon this site two nights ago and I've been waiting to be alone to post. This site is awesome! So here is my dilema. I've been asking my fiance to use a strap on on me for awhile. We are going away in a few weeks to a private hotel in the carribbean with our own private pool for a week. I thought that would be a perfect time to have her start doing it. She has been very tenitative about it, so I went out and bought her a

 http://www.extremerestraints.com/purple-waterproof-rabbit-twister_1342.html 

waterproof rabbit. She LOVED it couldn't stop cumming. So now I have her hooked on toys. Now I found out that I love taking it anally because I have been experimenting with

 http://www.nextag.com/Swell-Guy-Multispeed-Butt-5413267...532-C4F176866E8F12D8 

Butt Plug. I bought a

 http://www.mr-s-leather.com/D70.html 

regular butt plug so I can use it underwater in the pool. Now my question is that I really love the virating part of my butt plug. Should I get the

 http://www.bettersex.com/Adult-Sex-Toys/Dildos/Dongs/sp...p-on-dildo-1906.aspx 

beginner's one that only has a little vibrator in the pocket of the harness or get the

  http://www.bedtimeheaven.co.uk/product_detail-prodid~8173.htm

anal twister strap on which has a vibrator inside the dildo? Does the stroking feel better than the vibrating? I haven't experienced the stroking yet, so I don't know but I know for a fact that I already LOVE the vibrating part of the dildo. What should I do? I have to order one real soon. Please help.

Or out which one would you pick on the link below

 http://www.forafters.co.uk/index.php?app=gbu&ns=catshow...945bq171xe94a3heha0l 

Not sure if you can get this from freddy and eddy but we have it and it's a pretty nice one.


Heart Harness

Not sure if this helps or not but definatly give freddy a try. I was looking for a higher end strap on and searched high and low finally I found one from Outlaw leather. Its a highend harness that can take basically any dildo that is harness compatable. Tantis and vixen creations are the two recomended by F&E. The nice thing about the Outlaw harness (Other than it being very sexy looking) is that your partner can also be stimulated with a dildo. Though we haven't tried that option. It is a well built quality leather harness. If there are any other questions let me know or give freddy a call.

Just a cooling word: using a harness is not just being hooked on toys. You talk alot about toys practically nothing about your lover. Try tomake sure she is willing to give this a try for real. I assure you that changing position (as in: she fucking him) takes quite a lot of getting used to, from thepractical point of view, but most of all from the brain side. If you want to have fun during that holiday you'd better start with the new harness before that, or you risk some sad disappointmnt.

Maybe it would help her if you explained about the a-spot for guys. If I remember correctly ... When a man is being stimulated through the anus, he is having the back of his prostate rubbed which is extremely pleasurable. Wanting to experience this does not mean you are becoming more excited about men and less attracted to her. It means you want to experience this with her, and that says a lot about how much you trust her because you will be in a vulnerable position