We bought a Nubby G a while back and have only used it once. This was our first toy, and my husband was a little nervous about using it on me. I didn't particularly enjoy it, and I'm not sure how to tell if it was positioned correctly once it was in. I enjoy manual G-spot stimulation, but he's really only found the right way to do it once. Oh, the sexual frustration! Does anyone have any advice to offer?

First you should be open with each other. Tell your partner what you like and encourge your partner to tell you what they like.

Not sure how I can say it more tactfully.

Come on girl get your freak on

Don't forget the lube. you can NEVER have enough lube.

You could try showing him how it should be done...humans are visual creatures...I've got the same device, and my wife doesn't prefer it over her layaspot...however, I like the nubby for a few areas on myself..so you could try using it on him..;-)

Welcome Mrs. Shy!
The first toy is always a hit or miss. But you have to definitely communicate with each other. Bring out the toy and again and use it just by yourself. This way you can really feel what you position it may have to be in for you to enjoy it without having hubby manuvering it for a possible hit. By the way, did you and your husband shop for your first toy? This is a really great way for you two to really discuss what you both like, individually and together. Just the simple things as how it looks, how it feels, how it smells(hopefully not smelly) can really make for a great conversation. Try it and see.

I second the vote for showing him.

That trepidation is hard to overcome the first trip down toy lane. We KNOW that we are going to have a difficult time figuring out what you want. We WANT you to show us.

Plus there is the trepidation on your side to having your partner just watching. (hehe, unless that is one of your things)

Anyway, pretty much most guys would love to just sit between your legs, maybe gently caress your thighs and watch the show.

My first toy was a disaster - to the point that it ended up in the wheely bin! The second wasn't much better and that sits and looks reproachfully at me. I finally realised I did not want a vibrator but a dildo, I now have to beautiful glass ones and am very happy with them. Perhaps if there was anywhere near us we could actually visit to buy rather than having to do on line it would be different but for now I think I'll leave it at that.