Greetings,

thought id relay this one. see if anyone had had something like. Im hoping its a freak occurence.

this weekend my wife and I were enjoying each other in grand manner. and it was great. excellent time. but when I came, It was like the body did everything just fine. but the brain was in disconnect. no braingasm to go with it. like a disconnect.

anyone ever have this happen? no misfire nothing like that. just the lack of mental O.

i was thinking, that a recent muscle pull in my lower back might have contributed to this (been moving stones about our new pond for the caps.)

curious if others have ever experienced this sort of thing.

cheers
Nigel.

were you awake or asleep??

oh quite awake. and very aroused. all the sensations were there. but the bang! that goes off in your head. was non existant. kind of a let down actually. i stated my back possibly because one leg has been a wee bit tingly since i injured myself.

That has happened to me a couple of times. Typicall it occured when my mind was distracted by a muscle cramp or other sudden pain. Once it occured when a yung'n entered our room at the wrong time. I do not it is anything to worry about unless it happens more often and when nothing else is distracting you.

it could have been a distraction. its possible. even slight and momentary. but one could understand the concern i hope. lol

eesh. well, looking forward to when we give it another go. everythings super on manual. =)

cheers and thanks
Nigel.

Nigel,

Been there done that. It has happened a few of times. Too much anticipation, trying to control the sensation., last longer or blast quicker.

No worry it happens. I travel a lot for work. I have had to spend up to 3 weeks away from my honey. Way to much anticipation when I got home. Short circuited during the love making session.

Relax and keep poking away at it. It will come to ya.

Rex