Which one would you pick... I ask because some guys I have known in my past wouldn't go near the southern end with their face yet up and at 'em to enter me with their members, yet others were the exact opposite.

~Kathy~

Kathy - not sure exactly what you are asking

i think she's commenting on eating pussy vs plain penis in vagina sex

Ah no prob then greatest oral any time

Sorry guys and gals, I should have made the question a bit more specific. I was wondering whether you would rather have great oral (face to groin contact) sex OR the worst penis in vaginal sex. Hope that helps all of you.

~Kathy~

btw - why are you asking this Kathy...

Yes, my dear...Why ARE you asking this??

Guess I'm still not getting the gist of the question. Were I to list my Top 5, 500, 5000 sexual memories oral, intercourse, and manual would all have numerous appearences. If you are asking if I could only have one going forward, I'd opt for great oral. I have always leaned towards the passion making the moment great moreso than the method.

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Originally posted by Glamourous Granny:
btw - why are you asking this Kathy...

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Originally posted by Kathy and Jay:
Yes, my dear, Why ARE you asking this??

I just wanted to see whom would rather take/give oral sex and deal with the idea of no penetrational sex (intercourse) and whom can't even think about losing intercourse therefore saying that even if it IS bad intercourse, they wouldn't wish to have the oral sex out there if it means they lose their intercourse.

Ive known many males friend foe and ex's that have had different beliefs and I just wished to know the general concensus of this forum.

Also, I wished to know because I haven't had the pleasure of experiencing sex as of yet and know the joys that lie in receiving and giving oral sex. I wanted to see if going the distance, to the forum members, was worth giving up something great for something more.

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Originally posted by silk: Guess I'm still not getting the gist of the question. Were I to list my Top 5, 500, 5000 Big Grin sexual memories oral, intercourse, and manual would all have numerous appearences. If you are asking if I could only have one going forward, I'd opt for great oral. I have always leaned towards the passion making the moment great moreso than the method.

It's a choosing question. Great oral vs horrible sex. See, some people can't live without sex, therefore they'd take the horrible sex.. yet some need to have that greatness, therefore even if it is less than sex, they would pick the great oral. It's picking the least of all evils in a way.

~Kathy~

Believe me, horrible sex is just - exactly - that, horrible.

Personally, you can keep your mediocre cock and give me a good talented tongue anytime. May be Iamjusta bit too "clitoral".

But it wd be good to get rid of this ridicoulous idea that foreplay is not sex, and that the only real sex is penetration. It's ALL part of the same old game.

Yeah, I have to concur with Snowflake here.

Sex starts where? usually in the brain with a number of biochemical reactions before
anyone touches anyone. its not just about penetration anymore than it is about foreplay.

the desired result, fantasy or feeling in the end..is release.

it all begins where the individual defines Sex.

horrible sex. isnt sex. its just horrible. lol

cheers
Nigel.

Believe me, I'll take anything with the word "great" as an adjective in front of it instead of "horrible".

Kathy - believe me oral sex is SEX and I'd far rather have G going down on me than suffer crap penitrative sex from some asshole.

If you guys practice oral then I hate to disappoint you Kathy but you are having sex... I know Clinton could not understand this but believe me of some man is tonguing your clit whther he is sticking said tongue inside your vagina or not makes not an iota of difference - you are having sex, or hopefully making love!

Ok guys, I gotcha. I have stipulated the 'sex' of what it actually is to such a specific act so that I would only be ending up having sex with one guy in my life.

Now that i really think about it, sex is kind of the act of pleasuring someone in the most intimate manner possible... oral being an option, anal being another, and penetration being a third.

Just wanted to know preferences.

~Kathy~

Definitely would prefer great oral...and yes, I consider it all the same act as well. Hell, I would sometimes even view kissing - if it's wet and heated enough - as sex, too.