My Bondage 101: Dragonsgate<br />While attending and exhibiting a booth at the Erotica LA 2004 I got to meet an assortment of colorful characters, exhibitors and vendors, consumers, and industry veterans. At the Bonkum booth we had a couple of beautiful models (Tori and Jenny) and a line of willing men getting whipped and spanked at the booth by Tori. The booth was getting quite a crowd and a huge amount of exposure. BDSM mentor Papa Hertz was one character who happened upon us and liked what he saw. <br /><br />Papa is an experienced BDSM mentor and revealed to me that he would be interested in revealing The Bonk'er product for the BDSM circles he travels in. I have not been involved in that scene so he offered to mentor me and initiate me into that world and show me the ropes, so to speak. I told him that I would be bringing my beautiful girlfriend Tori along since I love spending time with her and she is so tickled and pleased to spank and whip our fellow man at the consumer conventions, she would love this excitement. I have always been open to new experiences but I haven't been to too many BDSM parties. I have been to a few fetish parties where the scenes ranged from blood and needle work to whipping, spanking and rope work. I really wanted to get to see a real lair and a serious dungeon in all its working glory.<br /><br />We spoke briefly on the phone a few times so I could get the lingo down and learn the proper attire to wear. Being that I was excited for the first time experience, I would call Tori immediately after every Papa conversation and let her know what the latest info was. We coordinated the time, dates, and location of the party. <br /><br />Tori and I met prior to the party with Papa at a local grill to get to know each other over a drink. Papa was not aware of Tori's beauty since he had not spoken with her at the convention and his interest was immediately peaked. We came up with names for us. Papa liked the name Jordan Minor for me since the organizer of the party was named Ms. Jordan. Tori became Ms. Tic. Short for Miss Lunatic since she wields a whip like a madwoman. He talked about femmdomme play and the etiquette and words we needed to understand.<br /><br />The party was at Riverside's Dragonsgate Studios (http://www.MistressJordan.com) a location discreetly hidden in an industrial strip mall behind tinted glass windows which would never reveal the secrets within. Such an interesting location for a BDSM scene, I felt like I was about to be walking into a metal fabrication shop. In a way it is. We opened the door and entered into this world. It was a very normal office with a desk and a couple of bookcases. There was a couple that greeted and signed in the guests and partiers. One of which, was a photographer of the events and had published the magazine �Mirror Mirror� (http://www.MirrorMirrorMag.com) a west coast fetish magazine. After the formalities, they open the door behind them and revealed the new world awaiting us. <br /><br />We immediately walk into a completely different scene. We had The Bonk'er in tow and needed to get it set up and dressed for the evening. We were both interested and amazed at what we immediately saw. A man was naked and infused and talking with us about it. For those not knowing what I speak of, the act of infusion is the injection of saline into the scrotum to enlarge the ball sack. This is supposed to be enjoyable, for some. After completion of the process, it take a couple of days before the saline dilutes into the system and normal size returns. I have not done this so my first hand experience has to be placed in the hands of the enlightened who have done it and tell me about it. After witnessing this first off, I had so many questions, but there were so many rooms and bondage equipment I needed to see. I was a kid in a candy store. I set up The Bonk'er in a room Ms. Jordan set aside for it to be used and Ms. Tic went off to get changed. While Ms. Tic was changing, the gorgeous Ms. Sascha (http://www.SaschaDevere.com) closed in on the newly setup Bonk'er and with hooded-gagged-slave in tow, drove right into an amazing scene hooking up his wrists and ankles to the arms of The Bonk'er and then using a basic spreader bar to attach and seperate his ankles to "The Bonk'er" and it also allowed as an extra tool for her to hold onto while she began smothering his face with her love. What a scene it was she played it beautifully and teased and tormented him riding him like she would a horse saddle. I kept looking around for Ms. Tic to see this, but she was still dressing. This all happened right after arriving so the evening really had not even begun yet. Crazy fun. Ms. Sascha continued to put on a scene that got quite a bit of attention and definitely got me excited.<br /><br />Ms. Tic came out and was absolutely breathtaking, dressed in a black corselet and black knee-high boots. Oh my, did she had everyone�s head turning, then it was time for me to change so we could move forward into the evening to explore the dungeon in all its glory. Leather pants, a black tank top, and a leash for my Femme Domme were the clothing for me. I did not get the looks that Ms. Tic got, just looks of envy from others wishing to be controlled and maybe punished by the likes of Ms. Tic. She then guided me, by leash, into the main room and walked into the many adjoining rooms exploring the party and all it had to offer. Do as I say, she commanded, Yes Ms. Tic I enjoyed playing along. We watched scene after scene play out as we saw numerous whippings, spanking, floggings, suspension, and electrical stimulation. There was even a medical room that had a cute young couple doing some rope work on the gynecological table. This is where Papa taught Ms. Tic how to use a crop, how to slap and how to inflict a sting and how to use it kindly and as a stimulator. Interesting things we do for fun. <br /><br />This got us excited to play ourselves. All the whips, slapping, moans, and whelps became a seamless interwoven cacophony of sound like a masterful concert of music. The instruments being the perverted bent metal toys and devices that stretch out the strings of flesh and bodies which become the vocal bellows of sound for our collective pleasure. <br /><br />Ms. Tic began by locking me into a trapeze bar which was then hoisted up by chain as high as I could comfortably handle. Then Papa supplied the crops, floggers, a leather slapper, and wooden paddles and Ms. Tic went to town. What a sight, and I could see since I was pants down and standing in front of a huge mirror which enabled me to see the carnage about to be inflicted upon me. Ms. Tic learned the techniques and together we learned the words and the dialogue needed to allow for continued play. Red, Yellow, and Green equals stop, slow, and go. After every hit I need to call out a number on a scale of 1-10, 10 being the most painful. I never went above 8 and Ms Tic was kind enough to ease the pain between hits with a loving kiss, rub, or pat of the pained and now bruised posterior. We had a great connection during this scene and many were impressed with both of our technique and ability to take it further than expected for newbies.<br /><br />Ms. Tic unleashes me from the trapeze bar and I sink into her lap on my knees to show my respect to her. I casually look over and I saw a large man be cuffed in to the trapeze bar where I had just been. Mr Tickles loved to be cuffed and tickled by Ms. Jordan. Ms. Jordan is a firey, beautiful, curvy, redhead who lights up the room with her spirit when she puts on a scene. She said later that evening that he (Mr Tickles) had been coming to her for this for over fifteen years since she opened her doors. She was tickling up and down the body with her fingernails. She would tickle him lightly and then a little harder then a little softer and lighter. I was so intrigued. I had never thought of BDSM as also something that was so light and fun. He was giggling so much it was infectious throughout the entire party. Everyone was having fun and they were feeding off his positivity. <br /><br />I did see several partyers that I have remembered from some of the conventions. People that have stuck out due to their fetish wear or because they have come to me to talk about The Bonk'er. Interesting how this all comes full circle.<br /><br />I saw some goddess worship when I was looking around as I was worshipping Ms. Tic. My eyes were open to the exciting and otherworldly experiences of the BDSM scene. The etiquette and the role-play were fascinating to learn. Papa loved teaching us and has promised to continue to take us to a number of other Dungeons to explore more. I look forward to the next experience and am always excited to explore the world I have seemingly gotten myself into following this world of The Bonk�er�.<br /><br />The Bonkmaster <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /><br /><br />The Bonkmaster, is a freelance writer who is also an inventor/designer/filmmaker and CEO for the company Bonk Designs @www.Bonkum.com. His travels search for the edge of social morality, openness, and the extreme being. He truly believes he is Saving the World, One Orgasm at a Time!

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