... or as Jay puts it- rape sex. I had discussed what I wish to do with him the last time he was down and he looked at me in astonishment. I told him I enjoyed him forcing me to pleasure him and enjoyed ,equally, fighting back.

Anyone try this technique, opinions on said idea and experiences would be wonderful.

~Kathy~

Aye, astonishment is the word for it. I'm all for some light use of force in sexual play, but I'll admit to being a tad surprised when what started off as a "tie me up for some fun and games" conversation turned into her interest in what could very easily evolve into a rape fantasy.

Hey, as I've always told her, I knew she was kinky, and I always want her to be 100% open with me, and I'm game to try almost anything once.

But, damn, woman, what else do you have up your sleeve??

Jay - just be careful you have the rules down pat...

Aye- I do believe communication is the word here- that, and a safety word.

Hmm....I know there's a Family Guy clip regarding safety words here somewhere......

Ahh, yes:

The Safety Word

Great clip! I knew it was in an episode somewhere I kind of want an outfit like Lois's...

i bit of a loving struggle can be sooooo kinky sometimes.....it brings out the beast in me and i really pound her hard when she does that!!

What can I say? I've always loved the fight for earning something I truly deserve, this is just bringing it into the world of sex and evolving my tastes into what feels good.

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But, damn, woman, what else do you have up your sleeve?? Big Grin

My Love- some days, even I DON'T know what is going to come into my head- and thats the joy of experimentation. Plenty more where that came from- i assure you..

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Jay- just be careful you have the rules down pat

GG- That is the one thing I am completely certain will occur :safety words, boundaries, etc. will be full discussed and thought through. This way the only thing needing to be posted was how amazing the experience was in hopefully detailed versions in the story section of this forum .

*laughs at the Family guy episode- Jay, you kill me sometimes.. *

~Kathy~

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Originally posted by meandjoe:
Hell yeah, any way i can get it ,but love that! Get rough, down right dirty! make me do things....oooooh! Make it hurt so good .....freaky....get my "freak on"!tossing, biting,spanking. Makes it even better! Thrill me, shock me,fuck me! add that with a blunt and loud music...mmmmmmmmmmm

Thats the way we like it.

Exactly! Also comes to mind is the saying 'pleasure is pain'. Ive always thought that if you can be completely open and honest with someone, you can also be the most animalistic and aggressive as you wish because that connection through communication is never severed while being yourself in the bedroom or where ever you wish to 'play'.

~Kathy~

I love experimenting with forced play with my wife. Just be sure that you have an easy to remember safe word and that you trust each other. It's intense and sometimes scenes go into strange places.. but it's fun. It's always good to chat about the scene afterward and discuss what you liked, didn't like, etc.