Hey guys, been hanging around the boards for a while and really enjoy all the discussions that go on here. I do have a little matter I'd like to throw out to the members here for a bit of conversation. There is nothing I love more than to take my to bed and caress (almost) every inch of her body with my lips, however, I have never been excited about the smell that comes from her sweet little pussy which has caused me to avoid pleasuring my wife orally but for a few exceptions.
However, my wife gives the most amazing blow jobs you could ever imagine, and quite frequently! Needless to say our relationship has become a bit one sided and I would love to hear if anyone has something they can recommend that will help mask her odor. Is there any edible lube or just a diet remedy that could help? One other thing we have both noticed is that since she gave birth to our child a few months back her scent has gotten alot stronger. So what do you think? Any suggestions? Or should I just suck it up

-Orally Challenged

Hi, Johnny. I can't answer your question.

But here are my thoughts on your situation.

Blow jobs are cool. Getting them, right? Giving them, yes! Why are they cool? Not because a woman just can't wait to stuff her mouth with a huge penis [they're all huge], cover her teeth as best she can, avoid gagging, learn how to breathe and blow, swallow the penis and/or the semen, come up smelling like her lover's crotch sweat, and genuinely enjoy it. All at the same time.

It's like learning to drive a stick. It's annoying to learn, but pretty slick once you can do it automatically.

I love the idea of a man who can't get enough of every funky inch of me. [Armpits. Armpits are highly underrated. ] 'Cause I'd do the same for Mr. Ricky.

It's not exactly only about sex.

For many it is about a demonstration of unconditional acceptance.

I suspect that men who learned to love a woman's natural, healthy scent, did have to learn to love it. So some learn faster than others.

Love your woman? Learn to love her luscious scent. Do whatever you have to do. Meditation, self-hypnosis, nlp, practice eating menudo, imagery, vizualization, The Secret, deep breathing. . .

And Ian Kerner's She Comes First is excellent about technique and what it must feel like to really love going down on your woman.

Then again, some women are a little self-conscious, and no man has ever showed her how simply amazing her vagina is.

Is she complaining?

While Cici may be quite right there is no mistake that if some smell is not welcome it is not. Period. I think the best oral pleasurer in this world simply enjoy doing what they do, wether they are "naturals" or aquired the taste with apprenticeship.

Also, while every person is different, usually there should be no overwelming smell down there. Did you check all medical possibilities (infections etc)? Well I guess since a child was born recently the lady has been under close scrutiny for a while, but just in case.

What about a really good wash up in-and-out before bed and then a flavoured lube? there are plenty out there. Most men say they prefer the natural taste, but if you don´t they may come handy. Raspberries have a certain potential too . It could be a way to start things, while you come, hopefully, to like the business.

i had a buddy once that said this lady he liked had a crotch that smelled like the "Okefenokee Swamp"....a third buddy ended up sending some sort of scented douche anonymously to her. the problem was solved one night when he went down on her and afterward commented on how good she tasted.

i'm not a gynecologist (other than the normal amateur pelvic exam...LOL) but i do know there can be an imbalance of "good" and "bad" bacteria that inhabits the vagina and cause some problems in that department. i'm sure there are women here that can give you better answers if you're patient. push the yogurt for a week or so and try again.

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What about a really good wash up in-and-out before bed and then a flavoured lube? there are plenty out there. Most men say they prefer the natural taste, but if you don´t they may come handy. QUOTE]

Lovely suggestions so far! I also like ajay's suggestion of maybe trying some yogurt. It has good bacteria to help prevent yeast infections and keep the flora in the area happy. Also try eating more fruit, such as pineapple. I've heard it can alter a man's taste, so why not a woman's?

Try taking a shower or nice bath as foreplay, and wash each other's privates. That way, you'll both smell squeaky clean. Make sure she cleans in the folds of her labia too, stuff like dead skin, etc. can get trapped in there, so make sure she cleans that area.

On the other side, definitely take her to the doctor if the smell is unusually bad, it could be an easily fixable thing. Is she aware of the smell? She may not be aware it's a little overpowering now. I know I can tell with myself, anyway, and if I know we're going to get busy, I'll take a baby wipe we keep in the bathrooms for this purpose and do a quick clean-up of the area. This prevents me from being a little self conscious of the area, and everyone's happy!

Also, don't be too picky. After all, do you wash your cock off before she gives one of her frequent, fantastic bj's? Probably not. And you probably have some natural scent too, but she does it anyway. Just something else to keep in mind.

Welcome to the boards!

Raspberries have a certain potential too


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I'm hearing all the medical advise and We'll look into it, especially the yogurt thing. I am curious about flavored lubes, anyone have a favorite? Oh and by the way, my cock-- Squeak clean thanks guys

What about Sliquid Splash Personal Wash?


Sliquid Splash at Freddy and Eddy's

Eddy's review HERE.

Hi Johnny!
You've gotten some great advice from our lovely family here at F&E. Give me a PM and I'll send you out a couple of samples of some flavored lube by Sliquid. It is Glycerin free, which helps when a woman's ph may be out of balance.

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What about Sliquid Splash Personal Wash?

Sliquid Splash at Freddy and Eddy's

Eddy
Lucky Wife of Freddy

Posted 18 September 2007 11:37 PM Hide Post
Hi Johnny!
You've gotten some great advice from our lovely family

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Originally posted by Cici Ricky:
I suspect that men who learned to love a woman's natural, healthy scent, did have to learn to love it.

I must be even luckier than I already knew I was... m'lady's scent is a huge turn on, and probably without par, in the realm of anything else I could smell. Now, I suppose one could say that might be a result of association, but that's just the pessimist at play with his craft, no?

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I must be even luckier than I already knew I was... m'lady's scent is a huge turn on, and probably without par, in the realm of anything else I could smell. Now, I suppose one could say that might be a result of association, but that's just the pessimist at play with his craft, no?

i concur

hey, guys...

now you got me PARANOID!

i didn't post 'scent' because MY pussy stinks!

i was just going through old threads...& saw reference to send KUDOS about F&E's store and the photo ad is real colorful.

i can't smell myself (although having a UTI i can safely assume)

maybe someone will wanna get close enough to take a sniff one of these days! hee hee

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My two cents on smell and taste:
I’ve been married for many years and back in the day when most ladies didn’t trim the kitty, my wife was no exception. Although she has always had exceptional hygiene, taste and odor were sometimes…an acquired taste.

As time moved on and we discovered the wonderful world of genital shaving, I soon noticed when she was trimmed, she always had a pleasant smell and awesome taste…lightly sweet. I have even surprised her with oral spontaneity, aka no time to freshen up, and she still tastes fresh.

Why do we have hair there anyway? I’ve heard researchers think hair down there is an adaptation to wick, so to speak, our sexual scents into the air around us for the purpose of attracting sexual attention. Makes sense to me, but I don’t need to be drawn across the cave, I’m more than willing and right here, face down in it.

So, a possible aid to improving taste and smell in my experience is keeping the kitty shaved. If the kitty is already shaved, I defer to the wonderful advice previously discussed.

Good luck and diver down,
Freedom

Im rolling with Freedom on this. It does make a difference and if Opera said all the ladies should do it then it would be getting done.

It's my humble opinion that excessive hair does help retain the natural odors that woman have, and I suspect some have it worse than others.