the wife and i had a good roll in the sack the other morning and as usual it was a lot of thrusting and then a brief pause. this lasted 20 minutes or so and in one of our pauses i started asking questions. questions like does your pussy feel good! etc. this next question's answer kind of suprised me! i asked the question if she likes the in and out or the constant press in our brief pauses better. i was suprised that she seemed to enjoy the fullness of my member pushing against her mound more than the constant friction up and down. now help me out michie!moonkiss!granny, any lady. what do you like the best? the in and out or the constant press? and why? ketch!!

Although I do enjoy the thrusting very much, I love to feel my man's body pressed against mine and to feel every inch of him deep inside me. Sometimes it's the subtle movements that get me off more than constant thrusting. But who knows, your wife and I could be in the minority. I'm rather interested to hear everyone else's opinions on this. Anyone out there agree with me?

I kind of equate it to situps in a way. You know when you are doing the "pulses" at the top of the crunch...that's what I seem to like the best.

I do like the in and out, but it gets kind of daunting after awhile and the pulses of his cock inside, hitting the cervix is really nice!

After Prez and I have both cum, I love to have him press his cock deep inside me. It's kinda a tease becuase it hits all the right spots and gives me tiny more O's! So while I love the hard fast deep thrusting during sex, when we're done, or just pausing, him holding it deep is awesome! Not sure if that answers your question or not.

I agree with LLM, I love to feel him inside me--we will have these really intimate moments where he will slide into me and just stay there and kiss me. I'll squeeze him with my muscles, look into his eyes... I love that.

I'm with Topless. I really like the pulses, not necessarily a full in and out and not a pause really either. A rhythm of small movements seems to push my buttons the best. I think I would like a deep pause more, but the way D's unit hits my cervix when he's *all* the way inside me actually makes for a pressure that's a little on the painful side...It kind of depends on our position though. The above is what I would say I like for the missionary position, I guess. But, if we're laying on our sides with me in front, then I like to pause once in awhile and do a slow grinding kind of thing. If we're having fun dggy style then I'd say I kind of like it more fast and furious.

Wow, that's an interesting question to ponder! Perhaps for me, it depends on the mood. Although I can say one thing that is guaranteed to rev me up a notch is having the Capt. lie on top of me, wrapping his arms around me, slowly pushing himself inside of me. I think it's the "fullness" feeling that gets me, more so than the thrusting, per se. Just the feeling of filling me up entirely and of us being one. It's an intimacy thing. Hard and/or fast thrusting is not what pushes me over the top. I enjoy that because he enjoys it. Or when I'm on top, it's more of the grinding than the thrusting that totally gets me off. So I suppose I would agree with your wife, ketch, and LLM and Moonkiss. No that I don't like the other stuff, but I definitely don't like having my cervix poked; that's uncomfortable to me. When things are slowed down a bit, I can really appreciate the fact that my wonderful Capt. is right there in me! Especially when he's wearing his ring, as it increases girth and I can feel the difference! Hope that helps!

I'm with LLM on this one. Sure I love G. thrusting in and out but just lying there with his erect penis thrust deeply inside me, me giving it little squeezes, us kissing and every possible body part touching... yup wonderful

Hmm. Good question. I'd have to say, sometimes I prefer to have hubby "flex" or "twitch" his cock inside me. It kind of intensifies the feeling, I'm not sure how to explain it. But it's gooood. Other times, I love the hard and fast thrusting. It depends on the mood of the encounter, I guess.

Ooh...this deserves a whole new thread on strokes and moves that drive women wild.

I do love the 'steady press,' as you call it, particularly in missionary position with my legs thrown over my man's shoulders, or with my legs spread wide open to relax the labia. Yeah, thinking about it, that's the thing--feeling so wide open and totally filled by my man with his sack resting against me. Purrrrr... That, plus a nice circular motion against my clit can drive me crazy in that state of utter vulnerability.

I also like to keep the lights on to see my man's glistening cock repeatedly plunge into me slowly to the hilt and then just as slowly withdraw. That's such an awesome tease, and it's slow enough for me to touch his cock and balls in between strokes. Really makes me beg for more. But the greatest thing is that the visual image stays in my mind, so when the thrusting gets more serious, I can revisit that image when the in-and-out is being intensely felt, but not seen.

I find the thrusting just before my man cums feels like he is driven by instinct. The movements seem spasmodic, uncontrolled and totally driven to deliver a load as deep into me as humanly possible. I've never asked if that's how it feels to him, so I might now that I'm thinking about it. Anyway, that rather unrhythmic thrusting is less apt to make me cum than some of what tends to come before that point, but I love feeling the primal power of the moment. Feels like a freight train overdue for its next stop.

Curiously, I'm less able to concentrate on meeting his thrusts at that point, but that's when my pussy starts contracting. I wonder how much of this is hardwired and how much of it is learned?

I missed this the first time around....

I think being fully pressed in, looking my wife in the eyes and telling her how much I love her is THE most intimate act of love making.

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