I've got a question for you guys (girls too) about masturbating in front of/with your girl. I've kind of had a hangup about this for a while, but Wendy is on her period (just started) and, well, I'm used to having sex with her on average about 5-6 times per week, sometimes multiple times a day.
That's what's cool about being together for 18 years - it just keeps getting better!
Anyway, I was thinking about doing this and cuming all over her, but like I said, I get a bit self conscious.
I have never cum while masturbating in front of her and while she says its okay, I also was curious how you guys feel about this and what you girls think of it too.
Hmm, my wife almost always lends a helping hand when she sees I'm getting close. I think she likes to feel the pulsations as they rip through me. I don't see why it should be any difference to orgasm during masturbation in front of her than while you're actually making love. Have you ever pulled out and released in a location where she can see during sex? If not, maybe that would help with the hang up about doing it during masturbation.
I really love it when D does this for me. Mmmm, very sexy and fun. Having never given your wife the priviledge of a show after so many years though could seem a bit intimidating...But if you think she might like it, then I say go for it!
We quite often masturbate together, or in front of one another and always have.
I(G) didn't use to be very confident, but have gained confidence recently and now really enjoy masturbating.
I really like watching J getting all hot and bothered while masterbating. Sometimes I like to ahem, lend a helping hand or two! And I really love the feeling of his hot cum spurting over my body...
... sorry ...have to go now....
G
Posts: 332 | Location: Scotland | Registered: 13 February 2005
If your wife says it's okay, go for it. Sure it seems awkward at first, but once you feel the sensation you'll forget about it. If you can't have sex with her, why prevent yourself from feeling good? Who knows, you and her may be on to something for future activities.
Posts: 154 | Location: USA | Registered: 18 October 2005
Jeff I say go for it. My wife and I have alot of fun with masterbating for each other. I have cum all over her ass and licked it off to share with her. She has straddled my face and masterbated driving me crazy and dripping on my face. I have cum on my self before and she licked it up and shared. It is awesome I say go for it.
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It's very hot, especially if you both do it at the same time, lying next to each other.
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Love to cum while the wife is watching, sometimes she helps other times well she says just go ahead so I do. Either way I have a better orgasm when she does watch. You have to do what you have to do!
We've masturbated together since we were courting and both get a kick out of doing so. But we have an informal rule: On Jill/Jack Off evenings, we keep our hands to ourselves; we watch one another but we do not touch one another. Now this requires some will power, to be sure, but the sight of cum surging out of his cock and sailing hiiiiiiigh into the air and splattering down on his tummy or legs is thrilling.
I once told several girl friends over lunch about our shared masturbation. (These are pals with whom I can "talk sex" at our leisure.) One of them protested, "Why let him waste a perfectly good erection by gettng himself off? Good lord, Kath, have him stick it in your twat, that's much more fun.
Oh, maybe. I just smiled and said, "Try it before you knock it."
Next lunch, she had done just that, and she said that it went well, although her husband was initially shy about jacking off in front of her, something he had never done before.
When one has been married to a guy for more than a decade, and loves him dearly, why not share everything -- even the joys of self-pleasuring?
Now, this is your assignment for the weekend. I want each and every one of you to masturbate with your partner at least one evening, and come back here Monday bright and early and report to Auntie Kath and the rest of the class how things went.
Posts: 76 | Location: Mid Atlantic States | Registered: 10 November 2005
Indeed, after being married for 17 years, why not share everything.
So that's what I did and....
.... it was great! Took me a while to get into it, but once I let go it didn't take long to cum all over her tits, which she loved so much that she rubbed it all over her.
Very cool, and now she wants to do it for me. Maybe a little light bondage for me...