Thanks GG...
We actually did something similar the other night..we spent at least an hour on foreplay,then we used my g-spot "wand"...Like I said before it totally felt like something huge was about to happen,it just never did!!
I'm not givin nup tho!!


~11

Keep it up 11 it WILL hapen - just watch out for wet bedding

LOL thanks GG!!!
Watch out??Believe me,we are BOTH looking forward to the wet bedding...besides,I'm a lucky gal...I have one of those amazing husbands who actually volunteers to sleep on the wet spot

It sounds like you have alot of experience on this subject,so I'll ask you a question...

I was reading F&E's "how to" about the gspot and they described it as

"Imagine you're holding a tennis ball on those two of three inserted fingers. An area about the size of a grape in the center of the tennis ball is what you're trying to reach."....

So in essence is this saying,in your experiences,that once you find the actual area you have to apply enough pressure to push up almost an inch against the vaginal wall to be able to really get to it?
Somehow this just sounds reallllly painful LOL!

We have to agree with GG!

You definately have to be really aroused for FE to work. We spent quite along time in the same position as you, we were sure that this time it WAS going to happen, but it didn't .

We kept on working at the technique and eventually it did work!!!! Hooray, and it was fantastic. You have to learn to 'let go' and just go with it.

Not much spurting the first time though and in general the amount varies. Although I think that this too depends on how turned on you are. Loads of foreplay helps.

Have to say the the first few time we were successful with FE, I(G) did end up rather bruised!!! We have somewhat improved upon on technique and now know exactly what to do ~ so no more bruising ~ hooray!

...and we are seriously considering one of those throws from F&E!!!

G&J

Well,I'm definetely going to keep trying..it sure doesn't "feel" far out of reach...I will keep everyone posted!!



~11

Look, if my orgasms were any stronger, we'd have to replaster the bedroom and replace the bed. So, sisters, do not fret if you do not emit fluid when you climax; just enjoy what does happen.

K

Hi 11
Yup follow F & E's advice re tennis ball, grape and pushing up - that is where either a 'worm' or a 'come hither' gesture with those two fingers works. The area itself feels quite different to the rest of the anterior wall of the vagina when you are well stimulated Grump describes it as 'sort of soft and spongy' - try feeling and stimulating for yourself once you are aroused then you will definitely know if Eleven is 'hitting the spot'! If I am not really aroused it can hurt, if that happens Grump just backs off and stiulates me some more and as G of J&G said you can get bruised...
Communicate, communicate and be ready to laugh and cuddle if it doesn't 'work out'
Grump is good at lying on wet spots too - just as well as I'm not

Guess WHATTTTTTTT!

I DID IT! I DID IT! I DID IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My first FE!!!!!!!!!!

It finally happened last night,and of course,it figures,Eleven was passed out cold LMAO...
It was SUCH a trip...I don't even think I got to fully enjoy it cuz I was so weirded out about what was happening,so I'm gonna try and do it again tonight

It's weird tho because I'm almost positive I DID NOT experience the g-spot orgasm,yet was able to accomplish the FE..does this happen to anyone else?

Yay for me!!!

~11

Okay, 11 - share your secret!! I'm jealous - after many attempts, I'm still unable to FE. Maybe I think too much about trying to make it happen, but if you have any hints, spill 'em!

11 congrats! Yes I believe it is possible to FE without a 'G' spot orgasm - indeed you seem to prove so

I didn't until a year or so ago...and it is amazing...for me, not so much a sensation of orgasm but more a freedom that I can and do. It isn't something I have worked for or that I achieve often, but when it happens it is amazing. Mostly because I find it a turn on and so does my partner.

The key for me is the G-spot and it only ever occurs with digital stimulation. It can, however, continue after I have begun to achieve it, and like others on this thread, I can be a REAL sheet soaker

The sex has to be hot and more than anything I have to be relaxed...comfortable, have a couple of drinks in me...but not too many or it won't happen. For some reason, for me, it is a delicate balance and all the planets have to be aligned or something It isn't something I feel coming on and I don't have any particular sensation other than overall pleasure I'd be having anyway. But the turn on is cool and the sex hot!

If I start to FE, then we either continue or he goes down and enjoys the flow. But the best was when I thought I was all done and thought I wasn't going to orgasm at the time...I climbed on top and went for it....and low and behold, I just juiced up beyond belief...it was like making love in the ocean and then when I came, it was quite unbelievable.

I love it but I don't work for it...it just happens when it is right...as it should and I am still always amazed. I don't mind THAT kind of laundry Have fun exploring, Michie!

Ok Sexy Wife,Michie and anyone else who is interested,This is going to be a LONGGGG post so bear with me,but I'm going to tell you everything that happened to me and everything I did in hopes that it will

help you do it too!
But of course remember this is just what I personally experienced and everyone is different so it may or may not work for you..but I sure hope it does!!

Ok...It was Wednesday night and eleven and I had just gotten done having about an hour of hot foreplay and about 45 minutes of amazing sex...I hadn't cum yet but he had already cum 5 or 6 times (he's

SUPER multi orgasmic) so I was still VERY aroused to say the least,but he was exhausted from a long days work.So I let him off the hook and decided to try the g-spot toy again to see what would happen.
(Ok, the EXACT toy that I used is The Slimline G,I have posted a picture link of it at the bottom of this post)

So,I grabbed a little hand towel (LMFAO..you will hear why later) laid down,and got started.
At first I just put it in,Had the vibe at about half power, located my g-spot and held it there lightly,until I got used to the sensations..I'd say I did this for about 20 minutes or so.
Once I got used to it I began doing what F&E suggest ...
" Imagine you're holding a tennis ball on those two of three inserted fingers. An area about the size of a grape in the center of the tennis ball is what you're trying to reach."

In other words I started pressing in an angled upward motion VERY firmly,to where I could tell that the egg on the end of the toy was definetely "tenting" the anterior wall at least an inch...with doing this the

sensation got MUCH stronger,much more tingly and intense "oh my god I have to pee" sensation...hehehe...

So at this point I decided to just go with it,and turned the vibe ALLLL the way up...within about 5 minutes of doing this I started feeling these strange involuntary contractions inside of me...And I mean WAYYY

stronger than the ones you have from a clitoral orgasm...
Now..heres the deal..What I found is this...you really really and I mean REALLLLLY
have to concentrate on these contractions and riding them out to the end...and I don't mean physically,I mean mentally!!what I found was that if my mind wandered for even a half a second away from what I was

feeling,the contraction would end immediately..So I had to lay very still,and very quiet,and really concentrate...It's going to feel VERY VERY much like you have to pee very very bad,but trust me on this

one,push a little,not hard,just a little with each contraction,YOU WILL NOT PEE!!!
Ok,I'm not sure about any of the other ladies here,but I find that in order to have a clitoral orgasm I kind of have to tense up every muscle in my body,kind of like a "sucking it all in" action...if this is true for

anyone else,The FE is JUST THE OPPOSITE...you don't want to push HARD,but you want to try and keep a little bit of pushing resistance going,then pushing a little harder with each contraction.

This went on for at least another 30 minutes,these super super super intense contractions that felt AMAZING!!!And then,my batteries DIED...LOL YUP!!!!!!!!! So I got up,got new batteries,put them in,and laid

back down...by this time I'm totally stoked because I actually feel like I'm getting somewhere!
So after I lay back down,I turn the vibe back on to full blast...and for whatever reason the vibe starts making this hideous loud rattling noise,and I didn't want to wake poor eleven up!!
So honestly still thinking nothing is really gonna happen,I grab my toy,my little hand towel,and head out to the couch in the living room.

I propped the pillows up on one end so that I was kind of in a kicked back position,NOT flat on my back,But NOT sitting up either..Kind of like you would lay in bed reading a book...I put the toy back in,within

seconds had another HUGE contraction,and all of a sidden,no warning,no signs,it's like a freakin faucet!!
I tried to stop it for a second just long enough to get my little towel under me but I tell you what,it is NOT like peeing...you CANNOT stop this stream,it is completely involuntary!!!So I'm laying there,thinking "oh

holy hell,is it ever gonna stop??" I'm so freaked out that it's actually happening that I'm not even paying attention to whether it feels good or not,LOL!!
So finally,after about 20 seconds of non stop faucet action,I get up,Bewildered,and look down at my stupid little hand towel on the couch...
I pick it up,and it weighs about 2 pounds....completely soaked thru,I look down at the couch,theres a wet spot about 2 feet wide on the cushions...I lift up the cushions...its soaked down the crack of the

cushions and onto the frame of the couch....GEEEEZ!!! If I had to guesstimate amount here,I'd say at LEAST 3 quarts,but I think that it was more...
So of course,being the paranoid one that I am,I grab the towel again,and you know,check it out,smell it,just to make sure it wasn;t pee...It had absolutely no smell whatsoever,and the liquid was completely

clear,no coloring.
So I run into the bedroom,where eleven is passed out cold,and he kind of wakes up a little and says "Baby please be done now and come to bed." so I say "oh I'm done beleieve me!!!!" and he says " well what

happened??" so i tossed the little towel over to him and it landed on his arm...with a big "SMACK"...LMFAO

So,the next day (which would have been yesterday) He was sooooo excited to see this,witness this great event in history,so I had told him that I would do it for him last night...so at about 8:30 I grabbed my

toy,layed down 6 giant towels on top of a rubber yoga mat and within 15 mere minutes I was aboe to FE again.It was soooooooooo much easier the second time knowing exactly what to feel for and concentrate

on...He totally tripped out and raised his arms in the victory sign and then we had amazing sex

So ladies honestly,if I can do it ANYONE can LOL...if you have any questions at all please feel free to ask...

So here's the question I always wanted answered,and every gal seems to want to know..."what does it feel like and how does it differ from a clitoral orgasm"

Ok..before the actual FE happens it felt like the contractions your vagina has during clitoral orgasms multiplied by about 200..and they are much longer too,each one i'd say lasting about 5-10 seconds...it's like

a rolling,thundering sensation...and before the FE they get closer and closer together.It's not a sharp "tickly" feeling like clitoral orgasms...it's more of a deep throbbing "to the core" sensation that starts in your

tummy area and radiates outwardly over your entire body...

And when you do actually "squirt",theres no rhyme or reason to it,no warning,the feeling doesn't get more intense or anything..it just "happens"...when it actually happens,to me it didn't feel like much,not very

intense or as intense as the contractions prior,but when it stops,you feel amazingly exhilarated!!On both nights after having done this even tho it was late I could not manage to get to sleep for at least 3 hours

afterwards...


The liquid that comes out is virtually odorless (has kind of a sweet smell to it) pretty much clear (mine looked like cloudy water,but no yellowing whatsoever like urine)... on my first time like I said at least 3 quarts and the second night probably two,according to eleven who was watching VERY closely

So,there you have it...a link for the toy I used is below,this is a great toy,it realllly worked for me..the thing about it is,the vibration it puts off is SOOOOOOO strong that once I actually located my g-spot I didn't even have to move the toy AT ALL,merely hold it in place...The downside to this toy is that it is pretty hard to hold it in place since it does vibrate so hard....it tends to turn and then you get lost and have to point it in the right direction again...so what I did was put a mark at the end directly in line with where it should go,so if I got lost I only had to look down to re-turn it to the right place.

Good luck all,and remember...don't bring a hand towel,bring a dinghy....LOL


~11

Oops!!forgot the link for the toy,here ya go!!

~11

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Yeh 11 way to go girl!

Wow, 11! Good job, gal, and thanks for the GREAT story! I could really feel your excitement. Excellent tips and insights, so thanks for sharing. My guy was blown away by the tale...really got us thinking! Inspiring!

The more I've been reading everyone's comments (along with my G-spot book), the more I feel that it is all just a fun journey to be on! Not a "GOAL," not a finish line to cross...just a really fun exploration of the possible! I think it's all part of exploring and expanding and deepening one's sexual experience...being open and comfortable trying new things and new sensations. I'm having a blast with my guy and with all of your insights! Whether toys/no toys; G-spot O or not; FE or not; intriguing possibility of tantra...it's all a great big FUN adventure. I'm grateful for this community and all of your open and wonderful ideas. We are all different and enjoy different things...we are all the same (love SEX)...and I learn from each one of you. Thanks and...