Anyone here ever go to a local swingers club? What was the experience like?

Would like to hear some stories.

Never been to an actual "Swingers Club", but have been dabbling in the lifestyle. We went through many web sites, but this one
Swing Life Style
has been by far the most helpful. It contains couples who are interested, plus information about clubs.
We are still very new to the Lifestyle, but if you have any questions please don't hesitate to ask.

We don't live in an area where there ARE swingers clubs, but we are active participants in both polyamory and swinging.

Are you interested in the idea of a swingers club, or are you interested in swinging? There can be some pretty stark differences.

A buddy of mine goes to one now and then. He said it is fun. He said not to even bother going if you are a single male. A partner is a must.

Single gals get along just fine but those are few and far between.

He has a FWB that he takes along and they meet people there and do their thing.

If you have a girl with you, you pretty much have a golden ticket to get action yourself. If you are alone, you get to watch at best.

Hello Frizzo,

It would be good to know which kind of clubs you were looking for since there are a couple of different kinds. You have both your off and on-premise clubs. The off-premise clubs are titillating and fun, and a good way to start things off with your partner since the idea is to hook up there, not actually get down and dirty...and you can have a lot of fun flirting with other couples. In Texas, where we did our swinging, the clubs allowed partial nudity so there were a lot of topless women and guys and gals swapping partners on the dance floor to do very dirty dancing. My wife had her first orgasm at the hands of another man on one of those dance floors, so things can get rather spicy.

On-premise clubs are most often private homes. We belonged to one for a number of years and enjoyed it immensely. You never really know what to expect - some nights you get together with someone, and other nights you don't. A lot of times, things can feel a bit clique-ish since people tend to gravitate toward partners they've enjoyed previously. But eventually, if you keep coming back, you can fit in and find fun. It is a real charge to be so free...to walk up to another couple and be able to say, "Hey, we think you're really sexy...want to have fun?"

Good times, those were...

anybody know of any clubs in the 401 area?

There's a new couples club here in Calgary and they accept couples or single females only. Some of the other clubs allow single men and at times there are 50 men and only a few couples. I don't like that. I'm all for being the center of attention, but I don't like when the single guys are trolling around, lol